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January 09, 2020, 03:46:57 AM
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ilusami


Me and my bf broke up 3 months ago(october10)...we knew each other since 2015 nad we're best ffriends.. he used to sharw all his problems..i helped him to overcome from his first breakup..we got into a relationship on 2018 feb 5.he broke up with me because someone showed him my intimate (not that much) pic which i gave to my previous ex and also some messages probably to prove me a cheater which is not true..the incident took place on feb 2019 but he didn't tell me anything as i had exams..he revealed all this october 10(the day when he broke up)..my bf knew my previous ex but i didn't clear everything about him as he didn't ask..he is angry because i hadn't all the matters..we talked but he was very harsh..he also told me after the night of our breakup that he didn't want to breakup but after coming back from his university he changed his mind...my friend told me that someone must be manipulating him..we also met after breakup he was ver emotional and kept me in his arms for the time but suddenly he said do whatever u want. after that i took some pictures with another guy(just casual friend) and he got exrteemly jealous and quired about him through my friend..then i was not in touch for some days but i couldn't control my emotions started to call him..sometimes he was ok sometimes he was harsh...but on dec 20 he blocked my numbers and other social media accounts except whatssap..I did some messages..some of the messages he seen but others remain unseen..he told his best friend to ignore me..is there still any chance? 😊

January 10, 2020, 03:47:33 AM
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Orange97


I think the best way to get back an ex is to count the last day you tried to contact him and from there not reach out to him for at least 4 weeks. During this time you need to work on yourself, find happiness through you and not him, try something new, go at least on one date, see friends. Basically you want to improve yourself and you want to mentally move on from your ex. When you feel good and happy about yourself, stop reaching out to him and don’t obsess over him, things will suddenly change. He will wonder what made you stop reaching out. And after those 4 weeks if he doesn’t reach out then you can send a simple and not complicated text. Just something like “Hey I was just thinking about checking in on you, how are you?:)” if he doesn’t respond for a long time, don’t freak out and send him another text or call him. You’ll come off as obsessed and that’s not what you want. You want to seem like you don’t really care, that whether he responds or not doesn’t matter to you because if he doesn’t your life moves on. If you come off with this vibe it’ll increase your chances.
Let’s say he does respond, Keep the conversation light, and suggest you guys grab a coffee or a drink someday. If he agrees to it don’t start talking about getting back together, just talk as friends and let HIM bring up your relationship eventually (if you see him another time after that).

Basically you need to move on to get him back. That’s the only way, you’re too easy right now. No guy wants to be with a girl who constantly tries to get his attention. You need to disappear from his life and work on your own to eventually prove to him that you’ve changed and that your happy with or without him in your life. When he realizes that he can actually lose you that’s when a guy puts all the effort back in! Hope this makes sense

January 21, 2020, 01:52:34 PM
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curiousguy


I don't think there is a chance now. Give it sometime maybe 6 month or more. Give him sometime to miss you. Then maybe you have a chance again. Use this time to date someone else and see if you really miss him or just hate being single. Good luck

January 24, 2020, 04:38:50 PM
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freespirit


As I understood that your ex is not emotionally mature enough.. His actions are childish and he is communicating ambiguity through his actions..
I think also he decided to ghost you .. and the best thing you can do to a ghost is :  Ignoring them and don't give them the reaction they need. If he valued the realtionship that you both had, he would be at least communicative with you .. but telling his best friend that he s ignoring you ?!! Seriously !! No thank you .. Next!

January 29, 2020, 09:16:43 AM
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Kkxrina


I believe he's using this an excuse to break it off with you, because he knew about this since February and didn't mention anything and now suddenly he's mentioning it? He's extremely immature and has a lot of growing up to do, he can't even make up his mind about how he feels about you, do you really want to be with someone like that? Girl I think it's time to go your separate ways.

March 07, 2020, 12:58:42 AM
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samsome369


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wish you have a great future with your loved one.

May 31, 2020, 06:26:51 PM
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July 27, 2020, 12:30:40 PM
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August 17, 2020, 11:27:46 AM
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August 20, 2020, 05:08:11 AM
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Beth


Hey, I'm not gonna lie, this is a difficult situation. Maybe he has met someone that turned him against you because the only facts are for your ex-boyfriend the pictures he received. However, if he really cared about you, he should have gone through the full story and should have asked you the real facts. Don't mind him anymore and try to start fresh with someone new.

August 21, 2020, 04:50:33 PM
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