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Author Topic: Would you be in a relationship where no sex is a rule

April 11, 2018, 12:46:49 AM
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Martinsx


I don't know if anyone has experienced being in a relationship before, where either of the relationship partners would make the restrictions of no sexual intercourse in the relationship.

How odd do you see such rules? Would you be in a relationship with such restrictions?
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April 11, 2018, 11:32:48 AM
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Personally, I'm a romantic guy, I'm quite intimate and therefore, I like sex.

I think it really depends on each individual requirements, some people may not like having sex often, or simply just don't have the time for it (if they have a busy life), but I think sex is a big part of making a relationship work, as it maintains intimacy and I believe over time, it enhances your love for that other individual. I believe theirs some science behind the scenes, that when we have sex with another human, possibly, we get more attached - who knows, but survey results have revealed that married couples believe that sex is an important aspect.

Like I said, it depends on your requirements, if you're having sex with your partner one a month and you're happy with that, then what's the fuss? Problems may arise if one is satisfied but the other isn't, so, I think good communication is essential for any relationship to work.

If one is happy and the other isn't, that's when cheating may occur, then the innocent half of the relationship will start to question why it didn't work, and eventually, they'll work out that maybe the sex wasn't as great as they thought.

Of course, sex isn't everything, but I think it's important!

It's also important to note that it's normal for sexual activity to decrease as the relationship moves on, it's at its peak when you first get together into a relationship!
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April 13, 2018, 04:44:25 AM
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Jasonn


I can see that as reasonable in some instances.  For instance, some religious people might not want sex before marriage.  Also, in another case, some might feel too much sex is less enjoyable so they might restrict it.  It's kind of like how food might taste better after a fast.

April 14, 2018, 05:11:08 PM
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Maybe yes.  But I know this not gonna happen.  It's really hard to avoid this thing, specially if you both in the same room with your partner, and doing nothing just kissing and hugging.  It's hard to avoid this also if you both drunk.

April 14, 2018, 11:10:55 PM
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amelia88


I'm a woman and that sounds like an unusual rule to me. Is this after a relationship has already been established? I totally understand if someone's waiting for marriage or something like that - if it's a personal choice for making something special then that's understandable. But if we're talking longer term than that, withholding intimacy like that is something that to me would only take place if one of the partners had a medical issue or something.

April 16, 2018, 08:57:39 AM
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Eboy1354


I can't be in a relationship with a rule of no sex because as I know the sex makes the relationship stronger. And this sex thing is the most efficient way to build more strength in a relationship.

April 18, 2018, 01:50:07 PM
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Ammabee


Yes, why? because if you really love the person you would accept all the things that she is not comfortable doing. It may sound too good to be true but for me if my heart really loves her I'll do it. That's is the power of love and all of us may encounter different situations that ourselves find it weird or boring. You must accept her whatever the reason is.

 

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