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Author Topic: Worries about her ex

March 14, 2020, 06:37:49 PM
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Hi everyone,

Random question for men and women. Anyone on here know that their current partners ex had a bigger penis than them?

Met a girl a few years ago and we connected and got on so well. Along side that we had the most amazing sex. It didn’t work out for reasons I won’t go into(there was no one else involved). Later, after we finished dating she tried to meet up and asked to see me and things again but I didn’t think it was the best idea. We stayed in touch even when we found new partners. We were great friends but we were also still very sexual and flirtatious over message. Sending videos etc. We would talk dirty and she would tell me things she wanted me to do to her. Ask me to send her pictures and videos. She would tell me she misses seeing me and sex with me and that I was the best sex she’s ever had even though she had a bf. She was also very jealous that I had a girlfriend.

We were having a drunken laugh one night and I asked her jokingly if her boyfriend had a bigger dick than me (I know I’m an idiot). She replied his dick was ‘quite big yes’. She never told me the size of it. But whenever I asked again she would just laugh it off. She told me in the conversation her boyfriends friends made comments about it etc, so I can only assume it was big. There were other conversations we had were I’d compare us both and she would never deny it. So I can only assume it’s true. She knows I know about his dick being bigger than mine.

We stopped talking for a while after her boyfriend and her found out they were having a baby.

Anyway long story short we are both single now and talking about dating again and meeting up. I’m worried that if we have sex again. I don’t compare to her ex. She has this memory of when we first had sex and it being amazing and I’m worried I don’t live up to it. Also because of the kid she and her ex will be texting and meeting up, which is fine because that’s what happens. But in my head I’ll worry that maybe she would go back for the bigger dick? Know what I mean? I genuinely think when they were together she missed me though.

I don’t think my dick is small by any means (6x5 inches) but it’s something I can’t get out of my head. I’m quite confident in bed and very much want to please, but I don’t want her thinking I’m being too cocky and over confident in bed with my dick etc. When her ex’s is bigger. She might be thinking ‘calm down you’re not a pornstar kind of thoughts’. Does that make sense?

Anyone on here had a similar thing happen or know about a their partners ex lovers penis? How did you ‘get over it’, if you know what I mean.


March 14, 2020, 07:46:50 PM
Reply #1


You are worried about the wrong thing. Love making is an art and not about the size of the penis. It is not about sex but love making, do you get my drift. What mood are trying to set and what do you want to achieve.? As the saying goes "Piss Poor Planning" gets you "Piss Poor Results". How sensual is your love making?  Do you touch and feel the warmth of your partner's body close to you, do you kiss? Do you use scented massage oils on each other.  Do you tease? It's the whole package, it's all about the experience and not the dick size as you put it.  Do some research and you won't be dissapointed.

Have fun! Remember it's about the experience!
« Last Edit: March 14, 2020, 07:50:53 PM by Cameron »


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