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Author Topic: What do you think of this idea?

July 31, 2019, 10:27:23 PM
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Moron


Hi everyone. I’m new here.

I know this might seem like a troll post, but I assure you that I’m serious.

So lately I’ve been trying to figure out ways for me to find a girlfriend or potential wife. I’ve been dwelling on this topic for years with much despair, but I think I’ve devised a new idea that would be more likely to ensure I succeed, and that’s simply to “hire” a girlfriend.

I’m not talking about a prostitute or anything like that, but rather a situation wherein I try to set up a mutual agreement with a woman that I would essentially pay her a salary to perform the functions of being my girlfriend.

I’m not sure if anything like this has been done before. I know I’ve heard someone refer to this as a “concubine”, but I don’t really like that term either.

The only reason I’ve become fond of this concept is because I think it’s the only way for me to ever get a girlfriend. If I pay for it, then perhaps I can actually get what I want. But if I’m stuck having to do it the normal way, all bets are off. It’s the only way I can see it happening for me.

Is this something that can be done? Have you seen this done before? I would appreciate some help on this matter.

Thanks!

August 02, 2019, 01:21:56 PM
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Momosabinski


I don't think it's a great idea for anyone to pay people to hang around then. It'll damage your self worth and you'll never get to experience the real them, since they'll always be "acting" nice because you're paying them. If you keep actively searching, you'll find someone eventually

August 02, 2019, 06:31:19 PM
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Moron


I don't think it's a great idea for anyone to pay people to hang around then. It'll damage your self worth and you'll never get to experience the real them, since they'll always be "acting" nice because you're paying them. If you keep actively searching, you'll find someone eventually
No. I know that I can’t get a girlfriend the normal way. Which is why I’m fond of this idea. I’m perfectly okay with the “illusion” of love. I can convince myself it’s real. As long as she pretends, I’m fine with that. It’s either that or nothing.

August 08, 2019, 04:41:36 PM
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JTSW


This is an extremely ludicrous idea. You will end up feeling so much worse about yourself in the long run.

August 08, 2019, 07:32:30 PM
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Mtanon


People like to say just wait it out and that things will happen in their own time. In other words be patient. But this can be easier said than done as patience is a difficult thing.

However before taking such a drastic measure maybe you should examine your past experiences with people and see if theres a pattern or habits you resort to that may put other people off?

I'm a firm believer that there is someone for everyone and you deserve a true relationship with someone that cares for you not just because they're being paid to be around.

August 18, 2019, 12:46:28 AM
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Kaya12


Try to find someone who truly cares about you. I am sure there is someone like that out there, you just need to go out and meet people. Do you have any issues like social anxiety?

August 18, 2019, 11:43:31 AM
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kollesiko



I do not understand. Why such difficulties? It will not be feelings.

August 19, 2019, 02:05:25 PM
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Union678


Girlfriends aren't paid workers. I don't think anyone would want this as a job unless they can't meet basic survival needs.

 

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