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Author Topic: weird situation! need help

March 04, 2019, 11:15:24 AM
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Eric21


Me and this girl are pretty good friends. We know so much about each other and we always get along when we hang out. We are like the same person if that makes sense. On top of being friends, we both have hooked up with each other many times. We have not had sex, just kissing, sleeping with each other, etc. The other day I asked her to come over and she said she "cannot hook up with me anymore because it is so bad for both of us". She knows I like her and I want to eventually date her so do you think this means she wants to take things slow and could potentially want a long lasting relationship with me? Otherwise, I do not really understand her intentions for not wanting to hook up anymore because I know she likes it when we do.

March 04, 2019, 09:07:45 PM
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winstonjack


women are so complex that for you to assume that she enjoys hookups may not seem what it really is. I could go through a thousand scenarios but I will try just one.

She likes you, no doubt. She hooked up with you but you were just a filler until what she was looking for came along. The guy of her dreams come around or she met him and no longer wants you as a filler, but her dream guy.

Sorry if my scenario seems harsh but in my 60 years I have learn that things don't always seem to be what you think it is.

 

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