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Author Topic: We confessed our feelings for each other now what?

November 09, 2019, 10:54:14 PM
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Confused L

I've been friends with this girl for 3 months and have liked her more than a friend pretty much since we first met. Up until 3 days ago I thought she only liked me as a friend. We were kind of forced in to talking about us because a friend said something about us and she started to ask me questions about it. She said our friend asked her about me and she said that I didn't look at her that way. I told her that I did and she confessed that she liked me too. We have another friend who also likes her more than a friend but I don't know if she likes him more than a friend. She said she has a bond to him and didn't want to seem like she was leading me on or anything because she wouldn't want to hurt me at all and that it wasn't because she didn't like me because she does or that I wasn't good enough because I am. Now I don't know if we are still just friends or more than friends or what we are. Nothing has changed between us we still act the same and talk to each other the same  and I don't know what she meant when she said she had a bond to him. I don't know if she meant a friendship bond or a more than friends type of bond I'm so confused.

November 11, 2019, 05:09:37 PM
Reply #1


Hi Confused L, I hope you are doing well. Why don't you talk to her again on this topic and ask her what she really meant?

Also do you guys go out together? Like going to the cinema's or something? And if yes, does she only do this exclusively with you? If yes again, then you should really talk to her again on this topic and see how she feels about you.

Also this is what I usually do when I want to safely check if women are interested in me in romantic way. I try to see if they are comfortable with physical contact. Like sometimes placing your hand on her shoulder. Or bumping into her while walking or just walking so close to her that our arms are touching. I then try to see how they react to it. If they are feeling uncomfortable I will break off immediately. If I see they are still feeling comfortable then I will slowly go further little by little and closely check if they are still feeling comfortable with it. If it's still ok I will then hold their hand.

I want to remind you that I am no dating expert. What I just wrote worked for me. I don't know if this will work for others. I hope this is of any help.

Also my apologies if there are any grammar error. English is not my first language.

November 11, 2019, 11:34:24 PM
Reply #2

Confused L

Hi Soul, Thanks for your advice I agree that her and I should talk more about this. However the rest of your advice will have to wait as she lives in England and I live in America although we have been talking about her coming to visit me sometime. We met online in a gamer group that we are both apart of. The other guy that also likes her is also apart of that group and also lives in America. She plans on coming to visit him also on her spring break as she is currently in University.(she's 31 I'm 30, He's 41). She made the plan to visit him before we told each other how we felt about each other. Although we haven't gotten to me in person yet we play Fortnite almost everyday and text each other everyday.

November 12, 2019, 08:45:12 AM
Reply #3


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