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Author Topic: Trying again with a girl after not talking to her for months

April 16, 2019, 08:48:55 PM
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sarack


Before I start, I am a sophomore in high school. During the end of the previous school year and around midway through the summer, I started liking a girl. Me, having low self confidence at the time, would always text and rarely come up to her in person. Although, when I did, there was clearly interest, based on the way she acted around me and the way she talked to me, I am almost 100% sure there was.

During the summer, after a lot more talking over text, I decided to ask if she would want to go on a date over text. This was kind of stupid of me, as I should have waited and talked to her in person more, but how I felt about myself was not going to permit that to happen. She said yes initially, but she also said she wanted to talk to me more in person first, but once we knew each other a little bit more that she would go out with me. For some reason, I was extremely disappointed by this response (I think my feelings were too strong at that point to think that any answer other than yes was good), and I just started to stop talking to her. Eventually, we didn't talk for a 6 month stretch of time.

During the summer, I gained confidence by working on my body. I was now able to confidently approach girls. Due to this, I decided that it wouldn't hurt to give it another go, where I would actually talk to her in person more than over text, and see if the interest that she had before was still there. If not, I would just let it go. I talked to her and still saw some of the interest. Should I try again with my newfound confidence or would you count what she said to me as a rejection like I initially did?

I feel like I’m really stupid for overthinking this, I’m sure there’s an obvious answer I’m just overthinking way too much. Someone’s else’s opinion would really help.
« Last Edit: April 16, 2019, 08:53:44 PM by sarack »

April 17, 2019, 08:19:34 PM
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ruth2410



April 18, 2019, 04:53:58 AM
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sarack


Her response was ok, just give it a go!
Alright, I will be talking to her more and if all goes well I’ll give it a go. Thanks!

April 18, 2019, 06:34:04 AM
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DanMr


Yes I think also you should try. Not get invoolved much if it does not work tho

April 18, 2019, 06:06:57 PM
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Blue Soul


Overthinking kills confidence and courage. Give it a try!

April 27, 2019, 05:00:53 PM
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sarack


Yes I think also you should try. Not get invoolved much if it does not work tho

Overthinking kills confidence and courage. Give it a try!

Sorry for the late replies. Thank you all for your opinions, I will try my best.

April 27, 2019, 09:56:20 PM
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pb49


You definitely won’t know if you don’t try, and it seems like you did.

 

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