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September 02, 2019, 11:13:41 AM
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Hi,

Looking for some advice if possible?

I cheated on my partner a few months back. She found out after a couple of weeks of it happening as I was still messaging this girl.

We have a child (2 years old) and i regret everything that happened as I nearly lost her and my boy. Plus the house etc. We talked about it and agreed to have another go, we have been good since and it has been a couple of months.

One thing that concerns me which she knows, is that i tried to justify things at the time of the cheating with two of my close friends about not being in love with my partner (i was lusting over this new girl for some reason - who is also married with kids), even though i was in love with her.
My partner saw the texts and my friends were just trying to help me and wanting me to be happy without thinking of my boy or her, which i thought is fair enough. She took all that personally and now hates them both ALOT. I feel worried when i speak to them incase she finds out.
She makes a comment about how much she hates them when she see's i like their pic on instagram or something like that.

I know she wont get passed this for a very long time as she is hurt majorly and i fear asking to see my friends because of this. I dont want my boy to come from a broken home but i just dont know what to do. I do love her but im not sure i could live forever knowing my relationship with friends is damaged from this. Plus she has asked me to put on my location on snapchat so she can see where I am when shes not with me. Surely this cannot be healthy?

Yes I know its all my fault in the first place and I need to make some sacrifices but can I live like this forever? I just need to see what people perceive this to be from the outside.

Any advice is appreciated.
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September 04, 2019, 04:43:11 AM
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Bump...

Anyone have any advice on this? Any advice is much appreciated.

Thanks in advance