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Author Topic: Thinking about leaving a relationship

August 25, 2019, 08:31:56 PM
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So me and my fiancee have been together for about 4 years now and I think I'm ready for a change. She is the first person I've ever been with so breaking this off is entirely new and intimidating for me. She has multiple health issues along with some mental health problems. She is crazy about me and it was her idea for us to get married. I feel overwhelmingly guilty that I do not feel the same and that I have lead her to believe so. I feel like I must end our relationship because I am no longer attracted to her in a sexual way and that I will hurt her by either cheating or hurting her with a lack of intimacy making her feel unwanted. On the flip side if I leave her I feel like her life will crumble and she will go into a self destructive cycle of depression and unhealthy habits. Either way I think about it I feel guilty. I have a plan in place but i just dont know what I will do when i get to that final moment. Should i feel guilty about this? Will leaving her hurt her more than staying with her? How do I talk to her about this??

 

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