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August 04, 2019, 06:35:21 AM
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Recently I got to know, that my GF and her very close friend (A guy) kissed each other before we were dating. I was very insecure about this. Last week she even booked a 2 day trip with him alone. I told I am not comfortable with this, and I didn't want to stay in this relationship, because whenever they meet, I feel insecure, and I broke up with her. Now she promised me that she will never talk to him if that is what I want, and she says they are just friends (Do friends kiss each other on their lips?). She is pleading me to get back with her. What should I do?

Also, the guy is in an 8-year long relationship and I think his Gf doesn't know that he has kissed another girl.

Please help me out!!

August 22, 2019, 05:34:25 PM
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Andris95


Hello!

Trust me, when I say I understand what you feel. My ex gf have a best friend.. a guy.. They are so close, they sleep at each other and even went to trips together for 3-4 days. It's something that kills your soul... But.. I think you should give her a chance. I belive in chances and she did nothing wrong. If she says she never touch him... Trust her, as long as there are no suspicion.. If you're not comfortable about their relationship, tell her. My ex would never touch her best friend, and I know that as fact but I didn't tell her my feelings about that, and it killed our relationship (and some other things) in the end. Tell her your feelings, ask her opinion and if you two ment for each other, she will not go to trips whit any guy. I know that you afraid that you burn yourself in the end.. but if you not trying.... You know what I mean.  :)

October 01, 2019, 05:28:45 PM
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Jimjam67


My take on this situation would be to trust her, genuinely. If she does cheat on you (yes it'll hurt) then you have grounds to leave. But if she hasn't then you're missing out on a great relationship. This is one of those things where you might have go all in.

October 18, 2019, 09:03:29 AM
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Harry


Im not sure why, but a heap of girls want the best of both worlds. Everything you have and everything the other guy has. So she dates you but keeps him close. I know this all too well. The situation is very off-putting because despite what she says, you're unsure. That's quite draining and toxic. My advice?  Trust her, however, to put your mind at ease ask for full transparency on her friendship with this guy.

October 19, 2019, 01:49:36 PM
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Lorenzo


Just try to tell with her. After conversation all will be clearer.

October 22, 2019, 08:52:13 PM
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Recently I got to know, that my GF and her very close friend (A guy) kissed each other before we were dating. I was very insecure about this. Last week she even booked a 2 day trip with him alone. I told I am not comfortable with this, and I didn't want to stay in this relationship, because whenever they meet, I feel insecure, and I broke up with her. Now she promised me that she will never talk to him if that is what I want, and she says they are just friends (Do friends kiss each other on their lips?). She is pleading me to get back with her. What should I do?

Also, the guy is in an 8-year long relationship and I think his Gf doesn't know that he has kissed another girl.

Please help me out!!

For me personally I don’t believe in the opposite sex being best friends it always works out that one is into the other more. I wouldn’t be happy if I knew my bf kissed his best mate I really wouldn’t want them to be around each other.