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April 17, 2018, 09:10:02 AM
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Jasonn


As with the opposite, the gossiping boyfriend/husband, the damage can be terrible.  However, though, due to human nature so many people seem to be that way.  Anyway, what are some tips to train people to simply shut up>:(
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April 19, 2018, 08:02:12 PM
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As with the opposite, the gossiping boyfriend/husband, the damage can be terrible.  However, though, due to human nature so many people seem to be that way.  Anyway, what are some tips to train people to simply shut up>:(

It depends what they're gossiping about, could you elaborate?

Other couples, your relationship?
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April 19, 2018, 09:33:48 PM
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Martinsx


Personally, I hate gossiping of any sort, I see it as getting involved into another person's life issues when you are not called on the matter to assist or not. I don't roll with gossipers and should my partner become one who loves to gossip about others, I would outrightly shun her to stop such lazy life style and find something useful to do with her life.

April 20, 2018, 11:19:56 AM
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DenisMNE


It is never good since it makes your brain deal with stupid things you will never need in your life.

I am not gonna lie, we all gossiped at some point of our lives, but trying to stop it.

Gossiping is sticking your nose where you shouldn't and I advice against it, like any other normal person would.

People who gossip tend to feed on other peoples misery.

April 20, 2018, 11:28:58 AM
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EfficientNinja


As much as possible we shouldn't support gossiping. We should mind each other's businesses. If we are to talk behind other people's backs, we should only be talking good things about him/her. We are only wasting our time and spreading negativity when we gossip about bad things.

April 22, 2018, 07:33:00 AM
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Patrick Y


Personally, I hate gossiping of any sort, I see it as getting involved into another person's life issues when you are not called on the matter to assist or not. I don't roll with gossipers and should my partner become one who loves to gossip about others, I would outrightly shun her to stop such lazy life style and find something useful to do with her life.

Yeah, I think that's the root of a lot of it.  It's simply people who have too much spare time.   Anyway, that's another reason I'm cynical about situations where people get welfare and the like.

May 16, 2018, 07:37:46 AM
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Valentino


Personally, I hate gossiping of any sort, I see it as getting involved into another person's life issues when you are not called on the matter to assist or not. I don't roll with gossipers and should my partner become one who loves to gossip about others, I would outrightly shun her to stop such lazy life style and find something useful to do with her life.

Yeah, I think that's the root of a lot of it.  It's simply people who have too much spare time.   Anyway, that's another reason I'm cynical about situations where people get welfare and the like.

Well, honestly, I'm not sure if gossipers have too much spare time or not!  I mean, people can make time!   Well, from what I've seen, some gossipers have rather busy lives.

July 28, 2018, 06:23:06 PM
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QueenFarLou


There's no gossip when there's no one to gossip with. Make her stay away from people who gossip. It would also help if she engages in other productive things like a hobby or enrolling in a class she's interested in.

 

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