I’ve dated a couple of Thai ladies in the last few years and it always ends the same. They end up leaving for some reason. I’m very attracted towards these women because of their attitude as a girlfriend. However, after a year or so, they grow cold on me and they break up with me. I don’t think it’s for financial reasons since I do have a very stable and good paying job. However, I am quite conscious with finances as I don’t want to waste money. Still, I give my gfs all that they need or at least that’s how I feel like. So now I’m thinking maybe it’s me? Maybe something is wrong with my attitude towards these ladies? Need advice.

Welcome to the forum!

I am sorry to hear that, may I ask, are these ladies local, or are you internet dating? - we need more context to provide some good advice!

Generally, what are the relationships like with these thai ladies? Do you argue? Are they affectionate? What's the sex life like?

This should give us some insight.

I'm very sorry to hear that you are going through this kind of situation with those girls.

I can think of some possible reasons for this to happen:
Maybe you are trapped in a pattern where you pick the same type of woman who leaves you at the end. It happens a lot to my younger brother because he insists to ignore the signals.
Are you dating girls with a considerable gap of an age difference? I don't mean to be disrespectful, I'm asking this question because independent from the culture where the woman comes from, the level of expectations changes according to the age. I'm in my early thirties now, but ten years ago the only thing that I could think about was getting married, today I just want to keep stable my actual relationship and have my own business in clothing.
If possible try to get a feedback when the relation finish, don't do it immediately but try asking to your ex-girlfriends. You can tell them, I have clear that a relationship between us is not possible anymore and I'm ok with that, I moved from the past and I'm good, and I really hope you are happy as well. I just feel curious and thought of asking you why did we break up? Is just curiosity, I'd like to know if I did something wrong.
If you did something wrong she'll tell you, but if you didn't, she will give you an excuse like: I'm sorry is just that the relationship wasn't working anymore, I wasn't ready to continue in this relationship, or any kind of excuse that you can imagine. Is hard for many women, to admit that the mistake came from our side as much as is hard for many men to admit that they were cheating.  So in conclusion, if she doesn't give you a real reason it means that you are picking the wrong girl.  If that's the case think in how do you meet this woman, how fast the relationship develops and what all those ladies had in common besides the fact that they left you. Do they look physically similar, are there some similar characteristics in the personality, maybe the temper, have you asked them about their expectations in the relationship? this information will help you to break the pattern.

I wish you the best, and I hope you can find the indicated woman for you.

Quote from: heartbert on May 31, 2018, 02:47:20 AM

I’ve dated a couple of Thai ladies in the last few years and it always ends the same. They end up leaving for some reason. I’m very attracted towards these women because of their attitude as a girlfriend. However, after a year or so, they grow cold on me and they break up with me. I don’t think it’s for financial reasons since I do have a very stable and good paying job. However, I am quite conscious with finances as I don’t want to waste money. Still, I give my gfs all that they need or at least that’s how I feel like. So now I’m thinking maybe it’s me? Maybe something is wrong with my attitude towards these ladies? Need advice.

Since you have laid emphasis on Thai ladies, it probably means that you have had another relationship with another who isn't a Thai woman and it most certainly went well.

But it's obvious something pushed you towards dating Thai ladies and all your experiences with them haven't gone well so far.

So, my advice would be for you to look past dating or having any kind of romantic relationship with any Thai lady for now. Try and seek love from other women from other parts of the world.

I agree with you on this completely @Martinsx. Sometimes what we want so much never works out for us the way we desire them and the best thing to do is give up on such things and move on with our lives.

It's obvious that Thai ladies aren't going to work for him in relationships, so it's better to seek love in another place and other country women.

Since your financial stage is ok, I think the problem is on you, these women leave for a reason and only you can find what it is, my advice is to ask them what went wrong in your relationship and you will know how to act in the future.