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July 02, 2019, 11:26:10 AM
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geartips


Hello
So basically 10 months ago i found this girl and i felt really in love with her, we were seeing each other for 2-3 months then she grew to my heart  a lot...she had dumped previous boyfriend because of me and this guy she was 5 years with, i know it is very big flag...but i was stupid enough and get into this relationship...she said that she didn't love him etc etc and that she is really in love with me and so on so she went with me...however each time we have some fight she mentions him, she keeps their pics and sends to them when she is angry so she is using him as something to threaten me and to give me back, she is really really spoiled. I have big problems with her, and i don't know what to do.

She always wants stuff the way she wants, she is not satisfied, even when she is she says i am not trying it is my fault and so on... She can be really gentle and like a angel but also like this too.
Also i moved to another country for work, and i told her i will bring her in 20-30days, this happened now and when she came, she didn't like food, drink. people, buses, since i don't have car, money, style , me etc etc and she is making me all sort of problems and she wants to go home now, she is really really acting like a baby...She closes the door, she says she will kill herself, she even started hurting me kicking me, crying, calling her parents saying how i am bad how i this how i that...Maybe some of you will even say yes man are all like this, so i am lying...etc BUt i am in serious problem here.
We don't have too much money so we can come back, she says she hates me and she wants me to destroy me, and she wants new boyfriend she wants to humiliate me and all bad stuff about me.
Then she calms down for 2-3 days or more then she do this again etc.

For example, we have boss here that is also good friend of mine, i known him for 4 years now and this guy since i work online mostly is calling me on meeting in 2-3 days per week and she hates him, she says no, i don't like him i want to spend time with you not him etc etc, she is even prepared in this moments to ruin my business and money etc etc , she has something in her head like she is acting crazy or narcissistic etc etc...

Also she is jelaous of my mother, she hates her too. She doesn't want me to contact her to have any contact with her , she even said that i have incest with her etc...I don't know what to say about that really. And she has great connection with her mother, brother but not father, since they are divorsed etc...


Now i don't know what to do, stupid thing would be to leave her so she can fly back home, she doesn't know language etc and she says that i must go with her since we are in this together and then we will split ways...Second thing is to stay here and fight and make money and they go home but i can't take this anymore.
I will break my border and i will do something to her and go to prison etc... I am really afraid...
Even though all this, i still have some feelings for her and i love her as person too and also as gf since i think i am very good guy for emotions but this breaks my heart, all this stuff.
Sorry for longer text, thank you.

July 06, 2019, 05:54:14 AM
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JuliusH


She really sounds like she has some mental health issues. Bipolar or something. Seems like you are in for a rough ride if you stay with her

July 16, 2019, 04:59:42 AM
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Monsta58


It sounds like a very toxic relationship that you have with her. If she really cares about you she wouldn't be threatening you with all this stuff and trying to make your life horrible. She's also ruining other relationships that you have, mainly the one with your boss and mother, which not ok. I know you said you still may have feelings for you but it doesn't seem healthy for you ,mentally or physically, to be around her right now.

 

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