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Author Topic: Starting to date my ex again, but getting mixed signs. I need help.

June 13, 2019, 07:15:47 PM
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liveandletliveta



Me and me ex dated for 6 years. I left my EX when she was in a very vulnerable state, she was dealing with a close person to her passing. I left her two weeks after the death, because I suffered a panic attack and went into a deep depressive state, I needed family to keep an eye on me and I moved back home. I started therapy, quit everything that could cause a panic attack like coffee and started medication.

She felt like I abandoned her and she related it to when her parents seperated.

A couple months later we reconnected and both agreed to try and make things work slowly, we went on a few dates including one romantic date last week which involved us imbracing and kissing again for the first time. I have tried my best to make every date the best I can. The problem is last night we went on a date and she was back to being spacious and nervous, saying she is still unsure of things. After such a romantic and wonderful date the time before this really threw me off gaurd.

After she left she texted me saying sorry for the funky mood and that she still is 100% on board for couples therapy.

Has anyone been in this position before? I would really appreciate some help with this. Do I give her space? Spill my guts? I really do love this woman. Thanks.

June 15, 2019, 05:21:29 PM
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trangilbert3


Respect her space. But the number one thing to do for the relationship right now is to handle your own emotional turmoil. When the two of you are experiencing chaos within your personal lives, it's hard to give love to each other if you do decide to go back together.

 

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