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Author Topic: So confused! She says I am more like a dad.

May 08, 2019, 11:34:51 PM
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Bluestr


Thanks for looking but I feel stupid now so have removed my post...
« Last Edit: May 09, 2019, 01:21:27 PM by Bluestr »

May 09, 2019, 12:58:34 AM
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Lovey


You are 22 . She's only 16; Don't you see a problem there ?

May 09, 2019, 09:05:30 AM
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Bluestr


I expected someone to say that and immorality you are not wrong, I did mention that in my post. But my mum and dad have 5 years between then so clearly it happens. I didn't choose to feel this way and despite my feelings I respect what she has said and I am going to leave it there.

I just wanted to know what others though about what she said. "More like a dad" after everything we have already done.

May 09, 2019, 10:28:25 AM
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Lovey


Teenagers tease . That's what they do. Please don't get yourself into further trouble, and leave it that way .
Since it's inappropriate from the beginning, the only advice I could give is for you to drop the matter.

May 09, 2019, 10:35:20 AM
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Lovey


Also I wouldn't call that love but LUST .


If she starts to change and decide to sue you in Court, you'll now realise what you're doing and even her parents
won't be your "friends" anymore .

Please leave the minor girl alone.

May 09, 2019, 01:46:47 PM
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Bluestr


Thanks for the comments I do appreciate you taking the time to read and post.

I have no intention of doing anything. Like I have said on my original post and again... I respect what she has said and I am going to leave it there.

I also know it's not love. My original post says I fancy her not love her. She is a good looking girl with a fantastic personality.

"Please leave the minor girl alone."
That comment made me feel very uncomfortable! I keep saying I am not going to continue. And I certainly don't see me putting my hand on her bum (with her consent) as inappropriate.

We are both at consenting age so had she wanted to go forward and be my girlfriend we would have been doing nothing wrong from a legal point of view. Now from a moral point of view that's different and something we would have to be happy with.

Once again thanks for looking.
« Last Edit: May 09, 2019, 01:51:00 PM by Bluestr »

July 18, 2019, 05:41:48 AM
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heartbroken8592


i was just going to post here so i could askk my question

 

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