Shy men are in a world of pain.  That's especially true if they are larger, short, or skinny, hence only appealing to a niche group of women I think.  So how can men overcome shyness?

The reality is that most people will experience shyness from time to time throughout their lives.
If you feel stressed before, during, or after a social interaction, continually remind yourself that these awkward moments aren’t survival threats. When you start feeling those anxious, shy feelings, keep repeating to yourself: “Everything’s fine. My brain thinks it’s 10,000 BC and is overreacting. I’m not in danger of dying on the savanna. I’m not in danger of dying on the savanna.”
Decide that it’s okay if some people don’t like you, you don’t like some people, after all! Work on making more eye contact with people.If you’re looking to get over your social shyness so that you can make new friends, consider volunteering your services for organizations that align with your interests and values.Quit thinking about yourself because other people aren’t! Self-consciousness is the fuel that keeps shyness going and is the obstacle that gets in the way of successfully socializing.
I was once a very shy person and I'm shy every now and then.

There's nothing wrong about being shy.  Shy guys are cute actually. A shy guys should be coupled to a loud girl so it will be balanced but it depends really on the personality and how you will accept each others flaws.

How to overcome shyness? We see being shy is most men do specially if they are lacking self-confidence. But this problem could be solved in a complicated way. Yes, it is complicated but by practicing this solution daily then you will overcome shyness and girls would be easily attracted to you.
I have been there, I was once a shy type guy but now I am considered as a chick-magnet.
There are tips that I recommend that would overcome your shyness.
1. You must stick with confident people, you must be friends with people that are cool, and they will help you how to be a cool guy too.
2. You can practice everyday talking in the mirror a just like your imagining that you are talking to a girl. Act like a gentleman because girls loves to be respected and treated like they are different from another girl.
3. When you are in the public, walk with confidence don’t walk with head down. You must walk like a alpha m. you must walk with chest up and your head up facing the people around you and when someone approaches you, you must smile and answer them with calmness.
4. Be a good listener and a good advicer too, in order to be confident, you must learn to listen to others opinion and learn to analyze every thoughts that they are saying. In that way you will be knowledgeable, and knowledge could bring you confidence.
In conclusion it is hard to start being confident, but it is possible!

There's nothing wrong about being shy.  Shy guys are cute actually. A shy guys should be coupled to a loud girl so it will be balanced but it depends really on the personality and how you will accept each others flaws.

Yeah, I've even noticed that with friendships among guys (non-sexual) that shy guys seem happier around talkative ones.  However, though, a pair of two shy will be boring and two talkative might lead to a fight, LOL.  OK, what do you all think?

communicate to the people around you, jam with them without until you notice that your not shy anymore.it takes time to do this.