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Author Topic: Should I break up with my girlfriend?

June 18, 2019, 08:06:08 AM
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bass123


Okay so, I'm 26, been dating this girl for nearly 4 years. We broke up once for a few months, I broke up with her but since we got back together we've been together for almost a year. Anyhow, she's a great girl. She's very friendly, constantly does little cute surprises for me, my family loves her, I mean... she's a wife material I guess. But ever since we had a conversation (cca 3 months ago) about how I'll screw her over if I dump her after she moves in my city (she lives about 2 hours away) I've started to have doubts. I started to feel pressured.
She's a lot and I mean, a lot more attached to me, she constantly needs approval and attention from me and this is making everything even worse. I really care about her, but I am not 100% sure if I wanna settle down with her. So as I've said I've had this doubts for about 3 months, and to top it all, my ex (high school sweetheart, first love) want to get back in touch with me. The girl that I needed 3 years to get over. She contacted me about 6 months ago, we talked a little bit and I could tell she was interested. She even told me to write to her sometime if I'll feel like it. I didn't as I don't think this is right - but it's killing me. Now she's liking my photos on Facebook, making everything even worse because I wanna meet with her, I guess...

Now I'm in a dilemma as it hurts me to even think how bad the break up would be for my girlfriend (I really don't wanna break her heart) and that I might regret in on the long run as she's a really good person and all. I really don't know what to do, should I just wait it out and hope it'll be better or should I gather the courage and finish it. Wdyt?

June 22, 2019, 10:47:10 AM
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Gemneyes


First off, don't let outside influences (like your family loving her) make your decisions for you.  If you feel deep inside your heart that you love her and want to stay with her, then do it.  For it to work, obviously there has to be commitment though.  If you're all in, you really won't want to explore other possibilities.  I think you maybe should let her move closer (but not move in together) and see how that plays out.  You may find that the distance was a good thing...or you may love the convenience and that you can see each other more often.  You won't know until it happens.

As for your ex, you need to be careful.  She may just be coming back into your life because she's bored or needs an ego boost from someone she knows was so much into her in the past.  That ship has sailed...imo.  I would leave that can of worms in the past if it were me. 

June 23, 2019, 07:11:07 AM
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Paddy


This is a hard one, you need to bide time about how you feel for both girls...A first love doesn't necessarily mean your life...

This girl shows a lot of faith and FAITH is everything in a relationship.

August 03, 2019, 05:15:18 PM
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Lucy


I am sorry to hear this but you really need to break up with her and not make her move into your city! It will be the best for both of you, trust me! You will save her time and the effort. I am sorry to say this but you don't deserve her, you clearly need someone else. You would definitely not be thinking about breaking up like this if this relationship would meant to be. Also you are super young so you are not loosing anything.

Good luck

August 03, 2019, 11:38:34 PM
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swissambush


You need more time to make this decision. Take your current out on a nice vacation. You may lose her to never get her back.

August 04, 2019, 02:11:30 AM
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August 04, 2019, 12:33:20 PM
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Omer


If you don't feel like you love or feel happy with her then tell her, DON'T CHEAT ON HER, tell her that you want to break up with her and that doesn't mean that she's not good enough, tell her that she's a really nice person and a lot of men will like her but you just didn't feel happy with her and you felt that telling her is better than cheating on her, explaining yourself won't hurt her that much.

August 05, 2019, 05:32:06 AM
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LaurenceMathews


Those kind of relationships are only between you two, so you should decide on your own whether it's a good idea to continue living as a couple together.

August 08, 2019, 05:39:44 AM
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Jonas


i dont think you should breat up with girl that you have been with for almost 5 years

August 08, 2019, 08:33:42 AM
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JTSW


Hi Bass,

If you don't see a future with this girl then you need to break it off sooner rather than later. Yes she will feel heartbroken (this is unavoidable whatever you decide to do) but she'll be even more heartbroken if you go behind her back with your ex. Do the decent thing  :)

August 08, 2019, 09:18:17 AM
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Cowboysfan18


I think you need to break up with her if you don't feel it. If you wait to do it then it will just be harder

August 08, 2019, 01:18:37 PM
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Cowboysfan18


The only thing is I don't think my best friend will ever date me

August 09, 2019, 04:18:48 AM
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JTSW


The only thing is I don't think my best friend will ever date me

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