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July 10, 2018, 10:03:25 AM
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mycheatergf


My girlfriend had been cheating on me when we were still 3 months until we reached 7th. Even though she’s like that, I still don’t have the courage to let her go. My friends would always advise me to break up with her because she’s a liar and a cheater. However, I can’t let their plea happen. My friends started to ignore me. I know they only care; I just so love her and I know she loves me too. We’re turning 1 year by next month and I believe she had changed. I know she had even though some of my friends would come and tell me they saw my girlfriend on a foreign socials having fun meeting new people. Everyone of us can still change if we want to. For a long time, I have been choosing anyone’s happiness over mine. Is it wrong to choose my happiness and myself this time? I love her; what else can I do?

« Last Edit: August 11, 2018, 10:52:32 AM by Brett »

July 20, 2018, 04:44:51 PM
Reply #1

Martinsx


I'm so sorry to hear about your situation with your cheater girlfriend, it's such a painful thing to endure knowing fully well that your woman is sleeping with another man. Personally, I can't stand the girl nor can I endure the shame it comes with. I would definitely quit the relationship no matter how much I love the girl because she is not worth it at all.

It's even obvious that you are hurting very badly with her cheating on you because your profile name is talking about her, so I would suggest that you make up your mind to leave her for good and allow her to get on with her life full of cheat. Quitting your relationship with her is even doing you a favor because there are lots of sexually transmitted diseases she might infect you with. I would suggest going for a full infection test.

July 20, 2018, 04:58:11 PM
Reply #2

ferlina


A cheating wife or girlfriend is most likely to stray for THIS reason.A CHEATING wife or girlfriend might have one very shocking reason why she is doing the dirty behind her husband or boyfriend’s back. If she is complaining about a lack of presents, this could be one of the signs she is sleeping with someone else.
A cheating wife or girlfriend is one thing that is bound to cause heartache in a man’s life.
However, according to a survey there is one main reason that women cheat - and it is something that any man can make efforts to prevent.it doesn’t have anything to do with how a man acts towards his partner in a emotional sense, although it does involve being more giving.

July 24, 2018, 06:34:09 PM
Reply #3

QueenFarLou


That's a difficult situation you are in. You must love her so much to have forgiven her but cheating is not to be ignored. It will later on be a discussion so before it gets serious talk to her now. Let her know how you feel and how you want your relationship to be with her. If she truly loves you, she will stay.

July 25, 2018, 07:42:11 PM
Reply #4

ion


I've been that before, I accepted her once, but I make an statement don't do that again, but she did, and I finally leave her even it's really hard to do.  She cried a lot for another forgiveness but never granted, and I found my peace of mind after that and I feel better and now enjoying my life with my new girlfriend, and the funny thing is our common friends told me that she's already has baby but still single.  So, if we still in relationship, how I can make sure that the baby is mine?  Keep that to your mind sir, find your peace of mind and leave her.

July 26, 2018, 09:25:10 AM
Reply #5

Martinsx


I've been that before, I accepted her once, but I make an statement don't do that again, but she did, and I finally leave her even it's really hard to do.  She cried a lot for another forgiveness but never granted, and I found my peace of mind after that and I feel better and now enjoying my life with my new girlfriend, and the funny thing is our common friends told me that she's already has baby but still single.  So, if we still in relationship, how I can make sure that the baby is mine?  Keep that to your mind sir, find your peace of mind and leave her.

You absolutely correct with that assertion on ending the relationship with a chronic cheating girlfriend. There is no justification for one to cheat in a relationship whatsoever unless you are being abused by your partner, then there is a good reason for you to seek comfort, love and affection elsewhere.

Remember that cheating is choice and not a mistake, so if my woman makes it pretty clear to me that she enjoys cheating and being in the arms and bed of another man, I would make the road very clear for her by putting an end our shamble called relationship for her to go completely.

July 26, 2018, 09:58:11 AM
Reply #6

Rita101


One of the things that ruins relationships faster more than anything is cheating and infidelity. It's very hard to harbor the thoughts of your partner getting naked and being in the arms of another sharing intimacy that was supposed to be shared with you alone. Seriously, it's unforgivable from where I stand because personally I see cheating as a sign of being fed up with your current relationship and need to move on.

So, after you must have gone and cheated with another man or woman, I get to discover about it, there is nothing else left to talk about the whole thing other than ending the wrecked relationship immediately because I can't open my legs for a man who purposely went and slept with another woman only to come and ask for forgiveness.

July 26, 2018, 10:08:09 AM
Reply #7

Noahhh


Let her go. Cheating is a indirect form of language that the message is, your partner don't want you any more. Some people do this because they don't want to hurt their partner so instead saying 'let's break up' right in the face, they let their partner found out themselves that they are cheating. So that their partner will voluntarily break up. Do not force any one who doesn't love you. No matter what the cheater reason is, cheating is bad.

July 28, 2018, 02:56:05 AM
Reply #8

daryle12


you still love her, fight for it and if you notice that it doesnt work anymore, then say this word "i fight for her before i gave up"

August 09, 2018, 07:53:44 PM
Reply #9

goodevening


@mycheatergf Do you know that she cheated for certain? If so, how do you know?

I would recommend reading this article on how to tell if your partner is cheating (it's all the same site, not a spam link), even if you do know for certain that she's cheated, it outlines some tips at the bottom of how to move on.

I am sorry.

August 09, 2018, 11:30:07 PM
Reply #10

jaymish


You need to run fast, I mean cross the road! Don't tolerate this kind of behavior. This person if you continue to stay with her will be the end of you. She is really ruining your self esteem, in fact she is shredding it and she does no care How do you stay with someone that cheats on you? I know this is a tough one but you need to walk away and learn how to love yourself again. You deserve love, honesty and faithfulness by virtue of being a human being. Think of yourself, hurry up and run. And never ever take her back. We have a saying in my Country that Leopards never change their sports.Run!

 

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