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Author Topic: She mentioned a break, this a good plan?

October 01, 2019, 05:35:31 PM
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Josh1917


Here is the deal. My gf went to college and i missed her and was jealous she parties with her guy friends without me and i was a needy bitch and texted her alll theee timmeeeee and now she went cold on me. Now i realize i was needy and insecure and thats a big attraction killer and thats why she pushed me away. Now i have been trying to not talk to her so much and give her space but now she mentioned a break. She wants one cuz she has never had a boyfriend before and wants to expirence new things to see if i am the one she really wants to be with. So if she finds sombody new and realizes im not the best she will break up. Or she realizes i am an amazing boyfriend and comes back to me.....


So here is what i am thinking to say to her and this is how i feel.
"I know what you mean by a break up. You dont have the guts to break up with me because i was insecure and you dont think i will get over it and going on a break will make it easy for you if you realise you dont like me. I am different now, i am not a needy little bitch anymore. I am not gonna sit back and allow you to go around and be with other guys and then come back to ol joshie if you dont like them. I respect you wanting space and i will give it to you if thats what you need but i am not going to sit and wait while you mess around with other guys. If you want that we will break up and i will find sombody new to make me happy."
Let me know if you think i should go this rout or just let her go and hopefully she misses me and comes back. Please reply. I need your help!

October 01, 2019, 11:10:33 PM
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junkoboy


I will admit it sounds like she wants her cake and to eat it too. She wants the best of both worlds from the way you describe it.

I agree with your conclusion, however your method might be a little risky. Just as a point of wisdom from my own experience, try not to tell a woman what to think or do. Often enough it will come back to bite you. So you might benefit by re-wording your message, though if you choose not to that’s your choice.

October 02, 2019, 08:17:53 AM
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I will admit it sounds like she wants her cake and to eat it too. She wants the best of both worlds from the way you describe it.

I agree with your conclusion, however your method might be a little risky. Just as a point of wisdom from my own experience, try not to tell a woman what to think or do. Often enough it will come back to bite you. So you might benefit by re-wording your message, though if you choose not to that’s your choice.





So by re wording it i should be a little less harsh? Or just not tell her what im thinking. And yeah your right. When i try to tell her my feelings it just makes things worse.

October 13, 2019, 09:28:30 AM
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Um, let her go dude, tell her, no need for a break, lets just break up. Shes found someone else or has multi guys on the pull. Its only going to drive you nuts if you have expectations of love while shes off with other guys.
« Last Edit: October 13, 2019, 09:35:26 AM by complexconfusion »

 

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