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Author Topic: She can't see my soul

November 11, 2019, 05:55:00 PM
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A month ago I have met this great woman. I have never met anyone like her. She is a very kind person who cares a lot about others, this include strangers. She is intelligent, she is sweet.. but most of all she is very selfless and put others first. She is also looking for true love and doesn't care about money and other materialistic stuff.

All I see is a very beautiful person both inside as outside. I feel like I want to do everything I can to make her happy. In my life I have been searching for the 'one' for a very long time. And I believe I have found her now.

The first two three weeks were great. It felt like 'this is it'. But then things cooled off. I had some deep talks with her on this. First she said that I am mysterious and that she is feeling insecure. She is not sure if I like her. I have to admit that I am not someone who easily tells someone my feelings. But I eventually did told her how I feel about her. But it is still not enough.

Now she is talking with me about a person's soul and that she can see the souls of her best (male) friends and her ex boyfriends. But she can't see mine. Tonight we were having another deep conversation. She said when someone becomes disabled, has the alzheimer disease, the face is burned off... what is left of that person to love? It's the soul.

She want's her own soul to be touched in order to fall in love. And this can only happen when someone's soul appears to her.

And I don't understand her. I am feeling stupid for not understanding what she means. I feel like I am not on her level. Because I don't understand what she means with showing her my 'soul'. I don't know if there is something I should do in order to show her my 'soul'. Or is this maybe her way of telling me that I am not the one for her and that she doesn't feel the love?

At this point I am kinda freaking out. The thought of losing something I have searched for in my whole life is driving me crazy. And I will lose her if I am unable to show her my soul.

I really hope that there's someone here who knows what she means or who can help me try to understand the meaning behind this.

November 12, 2019, 04:11:48 AM
Reply #1

Captain Black

It sounds like to me she can't see a strong enough connection between you and her. You often hear it referred to as chemistry . In a nutshell she cant see a romantic connection , so in her eyes the relationship will not work .

All I can suggest is to have another talk with her just to clarify her position but that is what is sounds like to me based on what you have posted .

November 12, 2019, 08:44:43 AM
Reply #2


Hello. My name is Pomela and for a very long time I can not find a man. Everything is fine with my appearance and I always follow myself. But unfortunately I have absolutely no luck in love. All the relationships that I had ended in failure. I don’t know what is going on. Help me with advice or there are suitable men here, write to me.
I am 35 years old. I am interested in men who are at least 5 years younger than me, and of course, I am more terrible than me for an indefinite age. Please do not write to me if you are under 30 years old. I am also interested in men exclusively white or Caucasian !!! I am always happy and open to communication. I'm already tired of waking up alone in a cold bed every morning. I love to cook and always listen to my man. Nowadays, less and less are real men who can protect their girls. Make me feel like a woman again. You can write me an email address: pomelashing@gmail.com

November 13, 2019, 06:55:40 AM
Reply #3


For me it sound like she needs more time. Be patient, be with her us much as she want to be with you and then try to talk with her again.


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