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December 01, 2018, 02:57:52 AM
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geartips


Hello to all
I will try to make this short :)
4 months ago i found a girl which i liked a lot, and we basically fell in love on first sight..She had a boyfriend then, but she immediately told me that she is not happy with him over the years and that instantly when she saw me she wants to break wit him because she really likes me...20 days passed and she broke with him...We hooked up and so on... She was with him for 5 years but they broke few times and then got back together etc..
I talked with her about it and she told me that she never loved him but he was only habit because of so many years behind them.so this was relief to her.

When months passed by i saw that she has nasty habit that when she is hurt or something in our relationship she wants to threaten me how her ex bf loved her more then i love her how he was nicer how he was more supportive and so on..and she is doing this often.. today we had a argument, because i told her i don't want to hear her talk about her exes and how many times she slept with them etc and she told me ok, but again this night she did it...

I was angry and i didn't want to talk with her and told her that she did it again and i don't know what to do..she was panicking and she called her ex BF on phone and on Viber to ask and complain how she is not felling well in relationship and how i am bad with her...

I immediately left her and she claims now that it is my fault blah blah..
What do you think i should do and how should i react?

THis is only sufrace, she always threatens how she will hurt herself because she is madly in love with me, and how her ex bf loved her more then i do so she thinks destiny is maybe with him although she doesn't love him at all and she says she will do that only to hurt me and be hurt forever...

December 12, 2018, 01:12:34 PM
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NoviceNinja


Do you still love her? Do you see yourself in the future with her? If yes, then do all the best that you can to get her back. If not, just focus on yourself on how you can be a better version of yourself compared to yesterday, and I'm pretty sure the right girl for you will come along.

December 13, 2018, 11:02:19 AM
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menchuuy58


Hello to all
I will try to make this short :)
4 months ago i found a girl which i liked a lot, and we basically fell in love on first sight..She had a boyfriend then, but she immediately told me that she is not happy with him over the years and that instantly when she saw me she wants to break wit him because she really likes me...20 days passed and she broke with him...We hooked up and so on... She was with him for 5 years but they broke few times and then got back together etc..
I talked with her about it and she told me that she never loved him but he was only habit because of so many years behind them.so this was relief to her.

When months passed by i saw that she has nasty habit that when she is hurt or something in our relationship she wants to threaten me how her ex bf loved her more then i love her how he was nicer how he was more supportive and so on..and she is doing this often.. today we had a argument, because i told her i don't want to hear her talk about her exes and how many times she slept with them etc and she told me ok, but again this night she did it...

I was angry and i didn't want to talk with her and told her that she did it again and i don't know what to do..she was panicking and she called her ex BF on phone and on Viber to ask and complain how she is not felling well in relationship and how i am bad with her...

I immediately left her and she claims now that it is my fault blah blah..
What do you think i should do and how should i react?

THis is only sufrace, she always threatens how she will hurt herself because she is madly in love with me, and how her ex bf loved her more then i do so she thinks destiny is maybe with him although she doesn't love him at all and she says she will do that only to hurt me and be hurt forever...
You really are in a difficult situation. I advice you to think very carefully on your decision. I think real love will conquer all.

December 21, 2018, 03:19:54 AM
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alymae


Is this girl crazy? I mean, why is she doing this? She seems unstable to me. I am a girl but doing this thing is really, inappropriate. If I am a man, I would never stay with someone who threatens me with her exes or with her life. The exes are part of the past and no need to bring them in the present relationship. It sucks to hear about the exes. She even tells you about their intimate life? Jeez. Don't tell me she also compares who is better at s**? I would break up with a woman like this. She doesn't respect you and doesn't truly loves you.

December 21, 2018, 12:05:58 PM
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faithuy56


Hello to all
I will try to make this short :)
4 months ago i found a girl which i liked a lot, and we basically fell in love on first sight..She had a boyfriend then, but she immediately told me that she is not happy with him over the years and that instantly when she saw me she wants to break wit him because she really likes me...20 days passed and she broke with him...We hooked up and so on... She was with him for 5 years but they broke few times and then got back together etc..
I talked with her about it and she told me that she never loved him but he was only habit because of so many years behind them.so this was relief to her.

When months passed by i saw that she has nasty habit that when she is hurt or something in our relationship she wants to threaten me how her ex bf loved her more then i love her how he was nicer how he was more supportive and so on..and she is doing this often.. today we had a argument, because i told her i don't want to hear her talk about her exes and how many times she slept with them etc and she told me ok, but again this night she did it...

I was angry and i didn't want to talk with her and told her that she did it again and i don't know what to do..she was panicking and she called her ex BF on phone and on Viber to ask and complain how she is not felling well in relationship and how i am bad with her...

I immediately left her and she claims now that it is my fault blah blah..
What do you think i should do and how should i react?

THis is only sufrace, she always threatens how she will hurt herself because she is madly in love with me, and how her ex bf loved her more then i do so she thinks destiny is maybe with him although she doesn't love him at all and she says she will do that only to hurt me and be hurt forever...
I believe if she is really destined for you and you for her, I believe love will find the way for both of you. I think these events surfaced for both of you to really know if you are really for each other. True love will make your relationship strong and healthy.

 

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