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March 22, 2020, 08:50:39 AM
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maninpain


my relationship was on the razor's edge -- i lied to my s/o about some really silly things and kept doing so. i met a (female) friend for lunch without telling her, and my general tone of conversation with her was flirty. i understand how that can make things rocky. that's strike 1. strike 2 was when, one week later, some really shady stuff from my past (things i did while i was not with my s/o) came to light. is it fair for me to be judged based on what i did in the past? i understand that the wounds have not healed from my previous error.

March 22, 2020, 04:22:06 PM
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shygirl20


I see that you regret your past decisions but maybe you really aren't interested in your s/o anymore since you are flirting with another woman. Probably fair to just move on and be single because I think that's what you really want. A relationship that's lost trust is difficult to get back without open honesty between the both of you.

March 22, 2020, 07:37:24 PM
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qich219


It probably is not fair to your current s/o for you to be chatting with other girls in a flirty way, maybe you should move on from this relationship and ask yourself if you really want to even be in a monogamous relationship right now?

March 28, 2020, 02:36:49 PM
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Urfavritwiteguy


Depends on what it was

And lets just she was the one flirting with and going out with another guy how would you feel and what would you expect from her to fix it. Probably gonna take the same or more to fix for her

March 31, 2020, 03:00:52 AM
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DreamGuyxo


You gotta always learn how to deal with your past experiences.

You gotta always turn things from negative to positive in the way you think of your past.

Once you do that you wouldn’t have to question guilty or past experiences

 

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