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January 18, 2020, 06:52:23 PM
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Right, this may seem obvious to others but my mind is done.

I’ve known this girl for around 12 years now. Met her at my first job and we instantly hit it off. Just as friends as she was in a relationship. She split from that relationship eventually but I was too shy to pursue her so just maintained the friendship. Eventually she moved out of town and we kept in touch every so often on Facebook. She’d come back up to visit from time to time. We did share a nice kiss one time when she visited, her idea.

As time went on contact drifted. She ended up meeting someone else, I had a couple of short relationships and time moved on.

About 4 years ago we picked up contact again as she wanted to move her and her kids back to here as her relationship broke up. We chatted for months about it as she struggled to find a place. She eventually found somewhere and all was great.

My health hadn’t been so good though. I’d lost a close friend and it drove me to depression. I told her about this and she was very supportive. When she moved back I was really struggling with a change of medicine so didn’t meet up with her right away despite her insistence.

One night I went out after work for a colleagues birthday. First night out in years and had a great time. Drank way more than I’m used to and passed out when I got home, fully clothed still. Not a good look.

Awoke the next morning to about 10 instant messages from her. Very calm at first then increasingly irate. Asking why I was ignoring her. I messaged back apologising and explained everything. We had a massive bust up, with her accusing me of all kinds. She blocked me and I thought I’d never hear from her again. That was June 2018.

Fast forward to now, she randomly messaged me out of the blue just saying “hi”. I was like “Umm hi. Thought you never wanted to hear from me again.” to which she replied “I know you want to talk.” I didn’t think much of this at first and we had an awkward conversation with pretty much one word answers from her.

Now I’ve had time to think about it, what is her game? How did she “know I wanted to talk” when I’ve never mentioned her name since to anyone? She added me on Facebook and I accepted, but should I have? Is this some kind of trick or am I just being paranoid?

Your thoughts are much appreciated. Sorry for the long post.

January 28, 2020, 02:17:16 PM
Reply #1


Maybe she regrets blocking you  and wants you back in her life but wants to know your feelings first...Were there any more conversations since or was it a one time thing?

January 30, 2020, 03:20:34 PM
Reply #2


She may be sensitive like most women. I think you should move on to the next phase, which is pursuing her, that is if you want of course. It's clear she cares about you and wants you to be part of her life.


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