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February 08, 2019, 05:01:04 PM
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Married man here 59 wife 56..still newlyweds. My wife says I am the 'Love of her life'. I have an opportunity to take a job overseas with a 4 month on one month off rotation. The money is great but we are comfortable at the moment. I'm not an insecure man but it really bothers me that she would agree to seeing me two months out of the year! lol

Am I wrong for seeing red flags here? I can't believe a woman in love as much as she says she is would agree to this! How say you folks? Am I being taken for a ride? The gut says so!
« Last Edit: February 08, 2019, 08:37:57 PM by giants56 »

February 08, 2019, 06:54:20 PM
Reply #1


Are you saying that you would want her to accompany you but she has refused?
"But the rain is full of ghosts tonight, that tap upon the glass and listen for reply."

-Edna St. Vincent Millay

February 17, 2019, 12:21:35 AM
Reply #2


Come on! Just talk to her. Are you going some place she can't go? I really can't say one way or another if your feeling is legit but you need to trust what you know. And if you trust her and know her, go with your gut.

Today at 01:15:13 PM
Reply #3


Sounds to me like she is being supportive, don't go looking for red flags because you'll find them even if they aren't there.

She just wants what's best for you and she's willing to sacrifice her time with you to achieve that. Of course it's going to be difficult for her but she loves you enough to make it work.

Have some faith, brother. If she truly is the one then this just proves it.

Anyway, she could always visit.