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Author Topic: Not sure what to do

February 02, 2019, 04:10:05 PM
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I meet this girl in Nov. She was married so I thought nothing of it. We started texting in Dec. and she notified that she is filing for divorce. We texted non stop for weeks. I was beginning to devlope feelings for her. We meet many times in Dec. and we were physically intimate with each other. She kept telling me not to fall in love with her but I was afraid if I told her I would loose her. We have been going non stop and had a sense she may have meet someone else. She did. I broke down and told her and she assumed I did. We have talked and our relationship has been so intense, I never had such a connection with someone and she feels the same. She doesn't want to stop seeing the other guy even though he's 20 years older and she hasn't slept with him she says she just enjoys his company, she is still living with her husband, she filed for divorce. I don't know what to do i don't want to force the issue but it aggravates me knowing this. She says she loves me but is afraid from being in a bad marriage. I was in a bad marriage that ended 10 months earlier so I can relate but I am so confused. Should I just be patient with her?

February 05, 2019, 11:55:52 AM
Reply #1


Hi Goyaks, sorry to say but this situation sucks!
So this girl is divorcing but still lives with her husband and at the same time she's seeing you and some other way older guy?
I would say back away from the situation and start dating many different women. Also: texting and all forms of digital communication are a way to set up dates, not to chat.
A woman that has relationships with three different guys at the same time and seems like she has no control of her life isn't worth your time!

March 09, 2019, 01:22:04 PM
Reply #2


i think you have to get that some time and see how that could turn out, meanwhile, the reality is there are thousand of women like her outside, so i hope you get to know someone who is more available