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Author Topic: Not sure what to do

November 08, 2019, 11:04:57 PM
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Now this might be a small problem, I got a girlfriend (for the first time in a couple of years) a few moths ago. And today I finally told her that I loved her, I thought she felt the same. Apparently she didn't as she just smiled and kissed me in return, now I'm very unsure about how this is going to impact us further. I've never said that I love someone first, and now that I did I´m scared.

She has for the last few week started to bring up her ex-boyfriend, every other day or so. Nothing big, just like "Oh, *he* did that" or "Thats something *he* and I did".
Not only that but I overheard a conversation between my GF and her sister where I heard her ex's name and the word "jealous". This made me really suspicious about which one of us she was trying to make jealous.

Not going to lie, in my previous relationships I have had a habit of manipulating my GF´s to get what I want, however I have already made myself a rule that I wouldn't do it to this girl as I really love her.

Now I´m stuck in this endless loop where I can't sleep while next to her, cannot help to avoid stuff and struggling being the real me.

I´m very unsure about how to handle this!