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Author Topic: Not another "I'm not getting enough sex" post

March 18, 2019, 07:18:29 PM
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Frustrated


So yeah, I don't want this to sound like another I'm not getting sex post. But I do have a question maybe someone can help with. Just a little background, we both come from religious backgrounds. Hers was a little more strict than mine, so anyhing out of the ordinary in the beginning other than missionary was weird, unusual, and just about non-existent. We have been married over 20 years now and our sex life has dwindled to me giving up. She will initiate after a few weeks of nothing which starts with kissing and within two minutes we're in missionary position. Only a couple of minutes she says "go ahead, don't wait" . That really does a lot for my manhood by the way. Then she rolls over and it ends with me using my fingers to get her off. Over two years it's been the same. I've tried to talk about it and she doesn't get it or says some things make her uncomfortable. She used to want massages but has never in over 20 years offered one. When I ask for the same treatment, she says she doesn't know how. I feel like this should stem from something else, but everything else seems fine in the relationship. I hate for this to sound like a whiney rant, but shouldn't there be a little more? I'm not asking for a swing in the bedroom, just some interest.

March 24, 2019, 09:11:59 AM
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Guigarguy


Yes, yes... It should be more. You are not whining. Do not think that way. You deserve to be happy. My wife and I got divorced a few years ago and part of it was due to our mismatched libidos.
I have a strong sex drive and am happiest with lots of affection and sex with my partner and that includes all sorts of sex, playfulness, and fun.
I am so much happier now in my current relationship with a woman who thinks of sex as I do, and she has a very high drive and loves all kinda of sex. It's very important! It's part of the glue that holds a relationship together.

 

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