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Author Topic: No label kind of relationship sucks!

August 23, 2018, 04:52:47 AM
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Have you tried being in this kind of relationship? If you do, I know you can somehow feel my pain. I have been dealing with this for months now. We became friends and even more than friends. We were so intimate with each other. We even kissed. We were kind of lovers, so I think there is something going on with us. Every time I ask her what are we, she always replies with “we are friends”. That sentence alone hurts my feelings. I know that the idea of her loving me is quite impossible but I still assumed. Is that wrong?

August 23, 2018, 06:28:02 AM
Reply #1


Well, better to do something to make her jealous.  Try to ask her about the girl you like for example.  Ask her opinion and tell her you like that girl.  Her simple gesture and temper will give a lead about her feeling toward you, and I think you lucky enough to find that kind of girl.  No string attached.

August 23, 2018, 09:21:04 AM
Reply #2


I feel your pain. Ambiguity can be the sweetest or cruelest kind of relationship. Sometimes it's better not to know. Often we want to live in our fantasy world where everything goes our way. I guess in your case you should decide what you truly want.

Not knowing won't help. Ask her in all seriousness when the timing is right. And if she still won't clarify or give you the answer you need, then you can decide if you want to hold on to such an arrangement.

It could be that either you already have the girl for you and she's just not saying her true feelings. Or she's simply the next big thing before "the actual" girl for you. Because sometimes people we like can hold us back. And we should live our lives to the fullest.

August 28, 2018, 08:47:17 AM
Reply #3


Try to do something that can make her jealous, if she gets jealous meaning she has a feeling for you and she loves you.

August 28, 2018, 10:59:02 AM
Reply #4


Hi everyone. with all honesty, all your help has helped me out. I tried to make her jealous and it did work so i grabbed the chance to ask her about how she feels. We are now official.

August 29, 2018, 02:51:39 AM
Reply #5


You are the Guy. If you won't have the courage to actually draw the line of  what your relationship status is, the relationship could hardly start and frankly it wouldn't last. Chivalry is not dead and it should come along with an Alpha Male courage to make it continue, which in your situation haven't even started yet. Guys are territorial yes, but girls are way more attached on that part of the relationship. If your woman won't brand you as her own, it says so much about how much she actually want you. I know it's hard, being in a relationship without any label, last year I've been there but I the female and so I believe I can't make the relationship official because my man haven't asked me 'the' question. The only option you have right now as of the moment because the situation is actually affecting you emotionally is to have the courage to actually tell her that you want more than what your getting out of the unofficial relationship you have with her. Ask her if she want to make the relationship official and if she actually want you as a boyfriend. Draw the line, brand her. If she doesn't want that, it's a totally different matter now I guess.

August 30, 2018, 12:17:39 PM
Reply #6


Try winning her heart! Show her affection and how you really feel about her. who knows, she could be in the same predicament as you.


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