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September 23, 2020, 02:34:11 PM
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for a long time. My girlfriend is a pretty anxious person and I am practically always happy/optimistic. I know that’s not normal, but my gf is anxious about 30% of the time and worries a lot. She also gets overwhelmed pretty easily. We aren’t getting any younger and I know I have to decide to go all in and marry her or breakup. It’s hard for me to commit myself completely knowing I’m potentially walking into a anxious/stressful life when I enjoy the opposite. Because I have never really dated anyone else, I don’t know how anxious/stressed other people are. I compare my gf to me, but maybe that’s unfair to her because I’m an outlier. My question is - how often do other people get stressed/anxious? 2 days/week? 1 day/week on average? Less? More? That would really help me understand my relationship. Thank you!

September 23, 2020, 05:11:44 PM
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Tony


I think you need to ask the question could you imagine having kids with this girl. Or does something in the back of your mind make you nervous about that. It will be a good indicator of whether this will work or not

September 30, 2020, 08:19:59 AM
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for a long time. My girlfriend is a pretty anxious person and I am practically always happy/optimistic. I know that’s not normal, but my gf is anxious about 30% of the time and worries a lot. She also gets overwhelmed pretty easily. We aren’t getting any younger and I know I have to decide to go all in and marry her or breakup. It’s hard for me to commit myself completely knowing I’m potentially walking into a anxious/stressful life when I enjoy the opposite. Because I have never really dated anyone else, I don’t know how anxious/stressed other people are. I compare my gf to me, but maybe that’s unfair to her because I’m an outlier. My question is - how often do other people get stressed/anxious? 2 days/week? 1 day/week on average? Less? More? That would really help me understand my relationship. Thank you!

Your situation sounds familiar.

The fact that you have been dating for a long time and that you haven't dated anyone before are key factors here.

I see mismatch of a life approach here, which is a red flag you need to consider. I can help you with making a right decision and if you need some advice please drop me a message.
Helping single men make the right choice

 

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