Hello hoping to find men who have not lost the whole concept of respect in a relationship . Let me start by saying I am 49 years old was married for 26 years until he passed away 3 years ago am now in another relationship it’s been 6 months and he is planning for the future ok here we go why is it so hard for men to have respect for the women they are with and not have eye issues everywhere I turn articles tell women accept you man has eyes, or you have insecurity issues it doesn’t address the fact that men seem to lack respect I am not an insecure person while I know I will never be 20 again I know I can hold my own for my age, and I am not a man hater, and yes I know people find other people attractive it’s normal but men need to learn respect for women they are with when in their presence I feel like my deceased husband is a dead breed because I can honestly say in 26 years his eyes never strayed when together ever he had respect. I know that this does not bother some women but I am pretty sure the majority of us are tired of it , the wondering eyes in our presents or the half naked pics we see scrolling through your phone when we are present because of something you subscribed to guess what it does bother most of us and it’s disrespectful, what my boyfriend does when not together as long as not cheating can’t disrespect me because not there I am pretty sure men don’t feel respected when we do it to them and I have proved this with the whole send my boyfriend pics of attractive men and say things to prove it hurts I just can’t believe no men believe there eye problems are not there issue that they have control over guess I am gonna find out hopefully

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