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Author Topic: My wife called a day on our marrige after 10 years help me!!

May 20, 2019, 07:43:16 AM
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Theonestar


Hi Guys

I really need some help, I'm soul searching at the moment.

My wife called it a day after 10 years together last week due to a number of issues below. we have 2 kids 5-8.

the marriage started to breakdown about 4 years ago after wife had our second child she had a traumatic birth and then started to distance her self from me on a sexual and pyshical level.

18 months ago she became depressed and tried to take her own life, since then I have been a career for her and just existing in the relationship I have been very pushy and offered structured control but she has seen this as obsessive and the sex side of things forceful which I don't think I have been.  I  had never argued with her in that time but she has become rude towards me and spoke to me like shit so I blew back and said mean things I didn't mean.

this was the catalyst for her to leave last month but we she distanced her self and since split.

I just don't know what to do I am currently in a no contact with her as I need to heal and find my self but finding it hard  I feel like  some one has died. she said she was done and now we move out every 3 1/2 to give the kids structure .

my questions to you all

can  I fix this!



May 29, 2019, 02:07:30 AM
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swl1969


Either she needs a doctor(if she has psychological issues) or you two need a marriage counselor.
If the breakdown happed 4 years ago, not over night, you would have expected.
Or maybe you refused to accept the fact itself that the relationship is dead. In this case, you need to talk to a therapist. Starting from yourself, find yourself back, take good care of kids, then see whether you can help her then.

 

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