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August 14, 2018, 09:50:57 AM
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Hall0815


My pregnant girlfriend threaten men to abort our baby if I show up during her pregnancy stage until the baby comes out. I don’t understand why she doesn’t want to see me and is only asking me for financial support. She’s making me feel bad. She doesn’t want me to be there for her. It makes me think she’s not glad of being pregnant. I don’t know what her reasons are but for the baby’s sake, I stayed away from her and now I’m a thousand miles away. A foreign friend of mine told me that maybe it’s because of her hormones. But it doesn’t seem like it.
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August 14, 2018, 11:28:14 AM
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goodevening


My pregnant girlfriend threaten men to abort our baby if I show up during her pregnancy stage until the baby comes out. I don’t understand why she doesn’t want to see me and is only asking me for financial support. She’s making me feel bad. She doesn’t want me to be there for her. It makes me think she’s not glad of being pregnant. I don’t know what her reasons are but for the baby’s sake, I stayed away from her and now I’m a thousand miles away. A foreign friend of mine told me that maybe it’s because of her hormones. But it doesn’t seem like it.

She's probably overwhelmed with the situation and you should probably give her some time to reflect.

How was your relationship before the pregnancy? Was everything running smoothly?

August 15, 2018, 06:19:18 AM
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RoseKaizer


Maybe its her hormones, mostly of a pregnant women are so emotional and sensitive during the first stage of pregnancy.Just understand her  for the sake of baby.

August 15, 2018, 10:15:44 AM
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Rita101


First pregnancy is always unpredictable how it would affect the mother, so I would advise giving her time to get through the first few months of the pregnancy. But there is something disturbing with her only asking for financial support but still refuses to see you.

If the pregnancy gets to 5 months and she still refuses to see you, then I think she might just be exploiting you financially and she might not be pregnant. Some girls are very cunning at times.

August 15, 2018, 11:22:23 AM
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Well, it's hard to understand the girls specially if they're pregnant.  I don't know how old your girlfriend but I think there's a little childish on her attitude, and might be not ready for this responsibility, to have a baby, you should just install camera on her room to make you updated to her.

August 15, 2018, 12:32:25 PM
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My pregnant girlfriend threaten men to abort our baby if I show up during her pregnancy stage until the baby comes out. I don’t understand why she doesn’t want to see me and is only asking me for financial support. She’s making me feel bad. She doesn’t want me to be there for her. It makes me think she’s not glad of being pregnant. I don’t know what her reasons are but for the baby’s sake, I stayed away from her and now I’m a thousand miles away. A foreign friend of mine told me that maybe it’s because of her hormones. But it doesn’t seem like it.

She's probably overwhelmed with the situation and you should probably give her some time to reflect.

How was your relationship before the pregnancy? Was everything running smoothly?

Yeah, I think it was because of the hormones. I really hope it is.

She sometimes gets cold toward me but we were actually doing fine before the pregnancy, so most  probably it's the hormones. Right? Thank you for commenting, anyway!

August 15, 2018, 12:34:15 PM
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Hall0815


Maybe its her hormones, mostly of a pregnant women are so emotional and sensitive during the first stage of pregnancy.Just understand her  for the sake of baby.

Yes, I understood her somehow. I can't just help but feel something bad about it. I hope it's just really because of her hormones. Anyway, thanks!

August 15, 2018, 12:37:27 PM
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Hall0815


First pregnancy is always unpredictable how it would affect the mother, so I would advise giving her time to get through the first few months of the pregnancy. But there is something disturbing with her only asking for financial support but still refuses to see you.

If the pregnancy gets to 5 months and she still refuses to see you, then I think she might just be exploiting you financially and she might not be pregnant. Some girls are very cunning at times.

Hi! First off, I already know about the first part and somehow understood my gf's point. I'll try to observe her until her pregnancy gets to 5 months as what you said. I'll try to figure out the truth too by any means. Thank you very much!

August 20, 2018, 10:51:19 AM
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Corzhens


Pardon me for this comment because this may sound derogatory to your girl friend. I am saying this based on the experience of one friend. The girl was a friend of mine. She got pregnant but to be frank about the pregnancy, she couldn't determine who the father was. Just the same, there was an actress in the Philippine movies who also got pregnant that she claimed Guy A to be the father and later on it was proven to be Guy B. Back to my friend, she avoided both guys for propriety because she might be accused of using them. And when she gave birth, she decided to just hide and break off with her boyfriend who was trying his best to claim the baby. Until now, the baby's father is not known.

August 22, 2018, 01:40:31 PM
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alymae


Your girlfriend might just be overwhelmed because of the pregnancy. Let's just hope that this is cause by hormones. I remembered my sister when she got pregnant with her first baby she always hits her husband and say that she hates his face. This situation eventually does not last. It disappeared after a few months. Just give her time. It would be best to also examine yourself if you did something that hurts her. Maybe you didn't notice. But since she is pregnant she is prone to mood swings. Understand her and always put your baby first.

September 15, 2018, 06:28:50 PM
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My pregnant girlfriend threaten men to abort our baby if I show up during her pregnancy stage until the baby comes out. I don’t understand why she doesn’t want to see me and is only asking me for financial support. She’s making me feel bad. She doesn’t want me to be there for her. It makes me think she’s not glad of being pregnant. I don’t know what her reasons are but for the baby’s sake, I stayed away from her and now I’m a thousand miles away. A foreign friend of mine told me that maybe it’s because of her hormones. But it doesn’t seem like it.

Do you have an update on this @Hall0815? How are things?

November 04, 2018, 05:31:15 AM
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lxyndyr


My guess is that she needs time to think and reflect on the situation. Give her some time.

November 08, 2018, 02:03:33 AM
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My pregnant girlfriend threaten men to abort our baby if I show up during her pregnancy stage until the baby comes out. I don’t understand why she doesn’t want to see me and is only asking me for financial support. She’s making me feel bad. She doesn’t want me to be there for her. It makes me think she’s not glad of being pregnant. I don’t know what her reasons are but for the baby’s sake, I stayed away from her and now I’m a thousand miles away. A foreign friend of mine told me that maybe it’s because of her hormones. But it doesn’t seem like it.


Much of what's happening to your wife is beyond her control, so you're going to have to be her lifeline to sanity. In addition to fear, anxiety, and body morphing, your wife will be subject to constant complex biochemical changes: sharp dips in blood sugar, hormonal fluctuations, and water retention. All of these things can cause her mood to shift in a nanosecond. As a result, you may have to reevaluate the role you've played in your relationship up until now. Most women find that their moods level out by the middle of pregnancy, "but for up to 15 percent, hormone shifts may be particularly problematic," .
Maxzy

December 23, 2018, 01:36:21 PM
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ghednepo


If i were you Bro, You should respect her decision because she is pregnant and i think she is stress maybe she don't want to have a baby , maybe she had a dream, maybe she is frightened to her parents, you should talk to her man be brave and strong. We are here to support you take care of your wife man

December 29, 2018, 12:48:30 AM
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NoviceNinja


I do agree that it might only be her hormones talking. Give her a little more space and try to reach out to her using her immediate family, relatives or friends. Have someone give her a talk to explain the situation. All the best!

December 29, 2018, 09:23:22 AM
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Tehilah27


It's probably her hormones. However, women often say one thing and mean something else. Stay away from her for now but make sure she knows you're there for her. It could be a message once a week or reach out through her friends. Just don't leave her altogether or she might feel abandoned (even though she's the one who has asked you to leave).

 

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