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April 03, 2020, 10:10:40 AM
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James273


Hello

Right so I'm James 32 and married for 7 years now after being with my wife for 15 years.

So when we were young we had a lot of sex as I imagine most teenagers would. As the years went on this reduced but was still quite healthy, in quantity anyway.

Don't get me wrong we're not into anything unusual, in fact I think we're unusually basic.

So over the last 10 years or so I've pretty much always been the one to initiate sex. Until more recently when I kind of gave up trying as it might only be 1 time in 10 that I try to initiate sex that it happens. When she does initiate I always try to be into it but sometimes I'm just not and it becomes upsetting to both of us when I'm not erect.

So here's the question, I know men aren't a machine and these things will happen but I feel like my wife takes this to mean I don't want to be with her or have sex when given time and attention with hand or mouth I know I'd be very keen. I feel because I never needed this as a teenager she just blames herself. What should I do?

April 14, 2020, 12:30:04 AM
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JustAGuy


James, first of all, you are not "middle aged". I am in my 50's. You are still young.

I assume there are no other factors here; e.g., alcoholism, drug use, abuse, etc. Are there kids around?

As an average guy, I do not see anything in your post about talking...having a conversation about it. Why would you allow your wife to blame herself? If you have been together for 15 years, you know each other. Honest conversation can provide a sense of freedom and relief .... and possibly getting the blood flowing again.

 

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