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August 08, 2019, 09:24:04 AM
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When I first met my best friend I tried to get with her and I ended up in th friend zone. We've been best friends since and I've kept my true feelings hidden. I know this is bad to say but I find her more attractive than my girlfriend. If this was a crush on a random girl it would be fine but I see this girl every day so I think my new gf probably should know.

And a bit of context I've kind of built up this image of my best friend's beauty in my head like you would a celebrity. I know it's not healthy to do that to a girl but I couldn't help it. One time she wasn't wearing a bra around me and I saw her nipple and it was like seeing the holy grail for me.  I know that's kind of random but i think it's important for understanding how i feel about this girl's looks as well as her personality.

Lately my best friend has been hanging out at my apartment while I work because of her new roommate. Which sounds fine but she likes to take her bra off when she relaxes and usually wears tight shirts so you can see a good amount. Normally this wouldn't be a big deal but now that I'm in a relationship I don't know if I should be in this situation so much.

My girlfriend is fine with it because she just thinks we're best of friends but if she knew how I really felt she probably wouldn't want me spending this much time with her.

TL;DR! I'm kind of in love with my best friend and don't know if I should bring it up to a girl I'm starting to date.

August 09, 2019, 04:48:00 AM
Reply #1


This is highly inappropriate behavior from both of you, especially because you have a girlfriend. If you want a future with your girlfriend then you are going to have to stop your friend coming to your place and taking her bra off. You need to stop seeing her so much for the sake of your relationship. Do you want a future with your girlfriend?
« Last Edit: August 09, 2019, 04:58:48 AM by JTSW »


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