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September 30, 2019, 09:36:49 AM
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Josh1917


So, my gf is going to college up state and I am not in college. I see her about once or twice a week. When she is with me she texts her friends the whole time(boy and girl friends) and tells me ho much fun they are having without her. I try to do fun things but she doesn't want to do them, she says we like different things. On top of that half of the time she comes home she goes and parties with her guy friends without me and i see pictures of her hanging over guys while she is drunk. Whenever I try to talk about it with her it just seems to make her more distant. I am ok with her partying and such but not being all over guys. I would love to go party with her but I never get an invite. :P    Am i just being too jealous and needy???

September 30, 2019, 03:20:36 PM
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Jean


No u are not. U are being protective, and it's normal for one inlove.but maybe u should make her miss u too.

September 30, 2019, 03:24:45 PM
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joebloggs69


This is just my opinion and other people may say something different, but it sounds like it's time to call it quits. At least for a while. When I was 18 I met a girl, we fell for each other quite hard, but she was about to go to university abroad. So I told her to go and do what she had to do for three years, I told her not to wait for me. You know what? When she came home we got together and we were together for years after that. I just knew that, especially at that age, it's a time to find out who you are, and a time to get certain things out of your system. I never asked her what she did when she was over there, because it was none of my business.

I would say let her go and work that stuff out. You too. You also can use that time to find things out about yourself. I know it's not what you want, and it's not what you want to hear. But judging by what you have said, either you need to make a decision and deal with it head on, or something will happen beyond your control, and that will be even worse.

If you stay together, either she will end up doing something that hurts you, or she will stay faithful to you and resent you for it.

 

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