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Author Topic: Is she trying to make me jealous or just not interested?

August 23, 2019, 06:32:46 PM
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drivenfuture


So I worked with this girl for a year. (We dont work together anymore)..great friends...long story short she flaked on me one day, so I stopped pursuing her and backed off...she would send a text here and there...said we should hang out after her vacation/cruise...that was 3 weeks ago...I sent her a text this morning and she didnt respond, but came into my work with another guy...no idea who this guy is, as she broke up with her bf a couple months ago.  We didnt even speak to each other at all...I just acted like I was busy.  No idea what to think here.  Is she testing me or is she just not interested?

August 27, 2019, 10:39:42 AM
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ThomasEastman


I think she is trying to make you jealous.
She wants you to show her more attention, so do something or else she will keep on doing so.
« Last Edit: August 27, 2019, 05:52:54 PM by Staff »

September 04, 2019, 01:19:01 PM
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Niceguy15


She wants to get your attention, if the feelings are mutual between both of you, then tell her how you feel and tell her that you want her to be apart of your life  ;)

September 05, 2019, 10:03:15 PM
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sophie


Id tell her how you feel, life is too short, nothing to lose at this point so why not go for it you wont know otherwise.

November 18, 2019, 11:33:07 PM
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Murough


Did you ever make it known to her you wanted to be more then her friend? If you were always great work friends maybe that’s where she has filed that relationship. I would say if you felt like you were the one reaching out for her attention and she was always the flake. It’s not likely she would feel the need to make you jealous. If she attempted to visit you after your text. She probably just thought she would surprise you with a face to face. If there was any thought behind bringing a guy in tow. It would be more likely a her attempting to prevent you from trying to ask her out. She might care about the friendship and not want that to crumble by you trying to make a move. I can tell you I just had a ex coworker spill his heart out to me and try to get me to leave my partner. It sucks because I care about him. I want that friendship but there isn’t room in my life to abandon what I have for someone that only knows work me and I only know work him. You spend so much time with someone in a stressful place. Your emotions can build relationships up to more then they really are. You really only get to became attached to a fraction of eachother and you really don’t know what a real relationship would actually be. I’ve been wanting to contact this guy because I do care but not being able to give him what he wants is a huge friendship killer. I told him if he ever gets in the place he can go back to excepting just friends to get ahold of me. I am not hopeful though. So in your case I’d say. If you like this girl. Don’t dodge her. If you see her with a guy. Figure out if it’s a boyfriend. Find out if she even is available and if you still really want to make it happen. Tell her you always enjoyed your relationship and wonder if she’d ever want that to go further. Just remember if she is important don’t make it some high pressure all or nothing thing. Sometimes it’s just nice to enjoy friendship with a compatible person if it’s not going to be more.

 

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