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Author Topic: Is my intuition correct or am I being paranoid??

October 29, 2019, 04:04:05 PM
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The background story: I met a beautiful woman who is 10 years younger than me last year, we have now been in a relationship for just three months and she has had to move away for work. We have had so many good times but she has been very paranoid and jealous with me, and even more so since she has been living away from me. In fact, just last week I was accused of staring at other women in the local bar, and all I was doing was glancing around myself as any normal person would. She even gave me the cheek afterwards when I tried to kiss her!! I tried to forgiving and let it go....
    This last weekend some things happened at a party in her new place which really made me have to doubt if she can be trusted.
1: When she first moved in she told me about a male european housemate she had been hanging out with and seemed to be having fun, I was happy to hear it as I never want her to be lonely.
2: A number of times I asked her how she was getting along with all of her new housemates and she told me the news etc, but said she couldnt remember the european guys name. I thought that was strange, and particularly because when I was there drinking she screamed out the guys name as he passed by in the corridor and he just went to his room. I asked her why and she said she only remembered his name cus she was drunk.
3: I met the guy once the first week she moved in but since then on all of my visits he has been nowhere to be seen, yet he lives in a room just down the hall from my girlfriend.
4: A few weeks ago my girlfriend suddenly got real bitchy on the phone with me and complained to me that we "never do anything together, ever!" although I have been taking her out for meals, daytrips and nights out constantly. Her suggestion was: she wanted to more activities on the weekend, like jetski, surfing etc. I asked her why the sudden interest in extreme sports? She was really condescending and nasty about it and we had a big argument because I wont be spoken to like that.
5:After we made up I was with her and again asked her casually about her housemates, she talked about them all. And then referring to the european guy, she said "oh and I havent seen the other one in six weeks" again not mentioning only his name.

   So last weekend at the party the european guy arrives and kisses my girlfriend hello, in a very friendly fashion, my girl then says to him "so I havent seen you in six weeks". As he walks away she screams his name at the top of her lungs and runs after him shouting "oh my god where are you going!!" her shoe falls off and a big scene is created. ( I thought that was rude with me standing there, dont you think??)
   As the night went on she was constantly by his side, kissing ass somewhat. I overhear her say again "so I SAID I havent seen you in six weeks, what have you been up to?". To which he replies, "oh well I go to do Jetski on Wednesdays, as you know".

    My intuition was already telling me that something doesnt add up here, I am not stupid. But I would like to know what the readers think, does it sound like suspicious behaviour to you??

           Many Thanks,

November 02, 2019, 12:15:08 PM
Reply #1


Thanks petr.peo7er for responding! Yes im really not used to being treated so disrespectfully, but its even worse when things she says just don't add up.

November 05, 2019, 11:14:11 PM
Reply #2

Confused L

Sounds to me like she has a thing for the European guy sorry I would confront her about it and see what she says.

November 14, 2019, 03:37:05 PM
Reply #3


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