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November 18, 2018, 02:17:45 PM
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James


Okay, so I'm gonna tell a story. There is this girl in my class (I'm in 10th grade), and there was this 2 day stay at camp with the class, and during the film, we kinda touched or hands but didn't hold them. And after a couple of weeks, we were flying to Germany to an exchange program, and there we really got closer and one day while we were walking around the city in our free time and we were touching our hands time to time for a couple of days, and I started to hold her hand, and it was a very good feeling, and when we were about to reach our destination I said that I like her and she said she likes me back. We haven't talked about it at all, and one day in disco we with friends got outside, danced, walked, we held hands again and had a great time, and when we came back in, she was sad, and I didn't know what to do, because I'm shy, but when I asked, she said it has nothing to do with me, but I think it maybe does. And now when we are back to our country, it feels like it is very awkward and I don't know what to do now. Actually, I am very shy, and I don't know how to talk to her about feelings and even about casual things. I need help.

November 18, 2018, 04:45:17 PM
Reply #1

gwhatdoiknow


Hi there! you got a connection going with this girl, dont lose it. You are shy, ok, but you have been brave enough to hold her hand, build it from there. Think of ways you can contact her, for example writing a letter - for me its usually easier to write and show my heart. Who knows, maybe you would feel more comfortable writing her a letter asking her what she liked the most when you were in Germany. Start with simple topics, short sentences. See how she reacts and how you would feel from then on. Good luck. Fingers crossed for you.

November 18, 2018, 05:07:54 PM
Reply #2

smackie9


 Leave the mushy stuff for later when you are more physical with her like kissing/making out. Let things build up between you two first, ask her to be your GF and spend more time with her. You should never jump right in with feelings too soon or it will make her nervous and pull away.

Tip: just be fun and laid back with her for now. Never force it, let things unfold naturally.

November 22, 2018, 08:30:58 AM
Reply #3

katherine4431


If she admitted that she liked you back, then that's good. There's also nothing wrong with being shy. Sometimes girls think its cute. If she doesn't dislike you then there shouldn't be anything to worry about, but take things slow if you're both shy and want to be in a relationship. Life may be short, but its not that short, so take your time.

November 24, 2018, 05:01:50 AM
Reply #4

Acegold26



December 15, 2018, 07:41:33 PM
Reply #5

NoviceNinja


Tip: just be fun and laid back with her for now. Never force it, let things unfold naturally.

Are we talking about the relationship here or are we talking about something sexy here? What's not to force and unfold naturally? I'm confused  ;D