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Author Topic: I pushed her into someone else's arms.

October 29, 2019, 11:26:38 AM
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For the past three years a woman had been trying to date me. I was finally avaiable, and started dating and being girlfriend and boyfriend. There was issues a lot as far as she was having trouble with her kids and I was having problems being the loving, caring, affectionate person that I should have been due to the blame antidepressants I was on at the time making me a zombie. Also, we were only getting to go out once a week, and she was not happy at all about that, but it was neither of our faults but she was working third shift and was always tired, but she did blame me for some reason.
Anyway she got mad one day in August and walked away. Three weeks later she met a old friend and now three months later there is talks of them getting married. She got laid off so now she is able to do the things that we could not with someone else.
Without a doubt I do not question she loved and still loves me. I have told her over and over to just say she doesnt still love me and she will never answer with any words. She wanted to get married so first person to come along she jumped at.
I am so afraid every day that I will find out she made the mistake of marrying this guy. It is a rebound without a doubt.

If I knew I would have fallen in love with her the way I have I would have married this girl three years ago. My plan was to propose next April. How can I get her back. I do not want to lose her forever.

October 29, 2019, 03:26:38 PM
Reply #1


It does'nt sound to me like this girl is marriage material my friend. She hooked up with her old friend very quickly didnt she. After all she has her own kids too, do you really want to take all that on board? especially considering she may have been talking to this "old friend" much sooner than you have been lead to believe. Forget her, go and find another woman.

October 29, 2019, 10:48:19 PM
Reply #2


Isnt that the true definition of a rebound.
Smart thinking would be to move on but when you are in it the other person is everything.


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