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January 24, 2019, 09:51:39 PM
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Bappo


So there is a girl that I like that's in my class and that I have been friends with for over a year. She recently broke up with her boyfriend and is now single and I always had feelings for her. I think she is kinda in to me, but I'm not sure. The problem is I'm not very smooth with girls and I don't know what to do now. What would you do ifyou were me?

January 24, 2019, 10:30:05 PM
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SarahLancaster


Well, if you've been friends with her for so long, you should be able to initiate conversation.  Start by talking about something you both have in common, and then ask her if she'd like to go out to lunch with you some time.
"But the rain is full of ghosts tonight, that tap upon the glass and listen for reply."

-Edna St. Vincent Millay

January 25, 2019, 03:05:51 AM
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winstonjack


The dreaded friend zone. You'll have to be subtle but try flirting and see how she reacts. I find that teasing (in a fun way) is a good way to flirt. Most women are very intuitive so she'll pick up that you are in to her if you flirt a bit. If the flirting doesn't turn out well then be direct. Tell her how you feel. If she don't feel the same your friendship may suffer. But heck, life is about taking risks especially if the rewards are worth it.

Wish you luck.

January 27, 2019, 04:05:46 AM
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myles


Take the opportunity while you have it, I know it's terrifying but if you wait too long it's only a matter of time before someone else gets the same idea.  Since she just broke up with her boyfriend, it'd be very easy for your approach to seem disingenuous (right after a breakup would be the time when all these guys will be trying to flirt with her) so try to distinguish yourself from them.  Talk to her at some point, tell her how you feel and ask her out.  If you think she's into you, that means she's into YOU.  In other words, don't focus on trying to be someone she'd like, just be yourself and you'll probably be a lot less nervous.  Good luck!

January 28, 2019, 11:26:07 PM
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Reem1163


You'll never know until you try. Since you've been friends it means you have a rapport with each other and I would be honest about your feelings.

January 29, 2019, 12:49:26 AM
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Unilad2015


Honestly mate by the way you’ve described it I would just go for it because you’re already fine talking to her so just ask her out for lunch or something and see what happens .

January 29, 2019, 03:51:41 AM
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el.mariachi93


It's good you decided to hunt for some words of advice, so kudos for that
I think you should try showing your attraction to her, but not in a creepy way. Just randomly talk to her and show her how awesome a man you are. You will fall for you naturally!

January 29, 2019, 05:45:54 AM
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annonyman1


Bappo,

You'll need to be really upfront with her. Let her know that you are interested to be more than just friends with her. Honesty is the best policy. If you aren't smooth, don't try to play that card because you might come off as tacky or awkward. If you are shy, it's a good thing because it shows humility.

Good luck mate!

January 30, 2019, 07:22:25 AM
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koks88


I was the same. Just go for it. Don't wait to long because it is harder and harder then. greetings

February 02, 2019, 08:42:54 PM
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OppaAnnyeong


Well we always start with conversation. So i guess start with that then if you think its time then tell her.

February 04, 2019, 11:51:00 PM
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Alcoholc-69-x


Ask her out on a date with just the two of you. No friends no family involved. Don't let yourself get friendzoned! if you get the feeling you can kiss her always go for it!

February 08, 2019, 08:41:06 PM
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giants56


Go for it. Look her in the eyes and be honest with your feelings. She will appreciate that. Confidence and nothing ventured nothing gained! Good luck!