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Author Topic: I need advise with my new relationship.

March 26, 2019, 12:37:07 AM
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diego1026


Dating a girl with a kid is all new to me. I am 28, no kids. She has a 3 year old girl and everything between us is going great so far. She keeps full contact with her "ex" (baby dad) and his family. Yes the conversations between the dad and her are mostly about the kid. But she facetimes everyday with the family.

Like I said, every girl i've dated was never with kids or baby daddies.

Any advise on what to do or how to deal with a girlfriend having full contact with ex because of the kid.

March 26, 2019, 01:11:38 AM
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Globalwoods


Your in your rights for feeling that way, but her situation is complex so i would not let that hinder the success of your relationship. As long as the convos are about the kid and theres no flirty vibes your good

March 26, 2019, 04:24:53 PM
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Keira05


That seems at first a complicated situation. As long as you really love each other faithfully then even the baby's dad shouldn't be problem. You know to yourself that what you see between them is a baby girl that is the outcome of their past relationship and now you are the present that counts. Have you felt that there could be some reason for them to get back together aside from their baby? or you are just overthinking things. Trust your love for her and vice versa. As long as there is peace in your heart and mind and hers too then all is good and there's no way that there could be a problem.

March 27, 2019, 12:31:31 AM
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diego1026


That seems at first a complicated situation. As long as you really love each other faithfully then even the baby's dad shouldn't be problem. You know to yourself that what you see between them is a baby girl that is the outcome of their past relationship and now you are the present that counts. Have you felt that there could be some reason for them to get back together aside from their baby? or you are just overthinking things. Trust your love for her and vice versa. As long as there is peace in your heart and mind and hers too then all is good and there's no way that there could be a problem.

I may be just overthinking things. She did tell me that they had sex a couple of times after their relationship ended but that was over a year ago. The only reason for them to get back together would be the kid but I she says she's done with him.
I just dislike the communication part which I can't control because of the child

March 27, 2019, 04:01:30 AM
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Bernard C. Abuloc


This seems a bit of a new environment to you. You're inlove with her. Bro, if you really love her then you must trust her and accept the reality. You must trust her so that she'll never be annoyed if ever you show her something that might trouble the flow of the relationship... bro, trust her.

April 02, 2019, 09:48:30 PM
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diego1026


This seems a bit of a new environment to you. You're inlove with her. Bro, if you really love her then you must trust her and accept the reality. You must trust her so that she'll never be annoyed if ever you show her something that might trouble the flow of the relationship... bro, trust her.

Thank you brother, I will continue forward and learn how to deal with it

April 06, 2019, 09:42:56 PM
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Cecil_Opal


It depends if you want to continue the relationship or want to have a new beginning with her. The baby could be a responsibility. If you are ready then it is Ok.

 

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