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Author Topic: I have fantasies about my gf’s best friend

April 08, 2019, 02:16:11 PM
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freddieP


i please myself to her pics, i even think about her when we have sex. i catch myself doing this with a few of other friends & her attractive cousins. i have no intention to act out on these fantasies. i feel guilty & unsure what it says about our r/s. is this something that happens or am i just the only person with a problem?

April 12, 2019, 07:05:40 PM
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pinacolada


I mean it's okay to think about it. But if it happens all the time and you even think of them during sex that's a bit odd imo. Personally I'd feel very upset if I found out my bf likes others more than me.
What makes them more attractive than your gf? Think about it and then make a decision.

May 02, 2019, 03:45:31 PM
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Hubstuck86


Honestly, it’s something you have to set limits for. It’s ok to fantasize once in a while, but given enough time, you might find you’re more attracted to these people than your gf. Are there issues between you and her that lead you to do these things? If so, make it a priority to talk with her about those issues. I wish you all the best.

May 03, 2019, 08:48:09 AM
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W_Amadeus_M


Hey!

This is biology. Man is made to put our DNA in history and with as many women as we can.
This can't be re-wired as this was set in our brains by our naked ancestors.
But we can understand this.

My advice would be, don't masturbate (at least alone). Save this energy for Your girlfriend.
Also, fantasising is ok, but if this increase in frequency, then borders get thin and You might get tempted to "act" on it.

Other advice would be, try something new with Your girlfriend. I mean in bed.
Man can get bored of seeing the same stuff again and again. Again, this is how biology works.

Good luck!

Best regards,
W.A.M.

P.S. Don't tell her You are fantasizing about others, especially during sex. This will be a big blow and she probably will get self conscious. From there it will get only worse.

May 19, 2019, 06:39:10 PM
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USNAVYVET


I had relations with my mother in  law and  2 of my sister in laws .  Your only thinking about it  so I do not see any big deal

We only live once  may as well enjoy it 

 

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