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Author Topic: I have been a toxic liar

February 26, 2020, 11:40:48 PM
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Josh1917


I feel as I am to the point of no return. So I have always been truthful and faithful till recently. I am 20, been with the same girl for 3 years. I got drunk for the first time and a party. This one girl was all over me and trying to get with me. I keep avoiding her. Eventually, I end up trying to sleep but she keeps laying on my and has no pants on I end up fingering her for 15 seconds, I stop, my yes pop out of my head and I get up and drive home drunk, like an idiot. I have lied to my girlfriend ever since and the guilt isn't as bad as it used to be but sometimes it keeps me up at night. I feel like a scum bad for lying to her. I think that if I told her right when it happened it would be ok now. But I didnt. Now everything in the relationship is doing pretty good. I don't think the lie is making anything worse or anything, I just have a deep feeling that she will find out. (There is a chance that she could find out) I don't know what to do and now I'm asking the internet.

February 27, 2020, 10:23:40 AM
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rebelx0024


Think you’ve got to tell her, come what may.  That’s the kind of thing that can fester if kept under wraps too long.  It’s the right thing to do.

March 03, 2020, 05:54:20 PM
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Tony


Different perspective. You are remorseful and not that it excuses it but you know you have hurt your partner. I doubt you will do it again.

The guilt will fade over time, and you will learn to live with it. And it will work out with your girl or it won’t. Telling her will only hurt her. Keep it to yourself

March 03, 2020, 07:19:34 PM
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Mamalonglegz


I think you are a genuine person who seems to live his girlfriend. I think you should tell her...she may seem made or upset at first or even may need space for a while but I think that if it were me I'd want to know. Depending on if she is secure in the relationship she you will lose some trust but not so much so that she becomes paranoid by every and any contact with the opposite sex. If she leaves then call it fate and learn from it...what's for you will always be for you.

 

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