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Author Topic: I hate myself so much!!!!!!!!

August 09, 2019, 12:35:07 PM
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Homersimpson


It is pretty simple me and my girlfriend had been going out six months, she gets mad telling me I am lying to her which I am not. So three weeks goes by she is not texting but I text her everyday. Anyway at the end of the three weeks I find out she has got engaged and is planning to get married. How!!!! I did not even know we were broke up. Said she ran into a friend she has known for 30 years and it clicked so now they are getting married.

August 11, 2019, 05:54:58 PM
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Cornel


Man I am so sorry to hear.

But just from what I read I am almost confident that the issue is not with you.

1. If she ignored you for three weeks, then it shows she is immature.
2. If she accuses you of lying, it shows insecurity on her part and sorry to say but possibly projection [Considering that she ran away to be with the other guy I would say the latter]

But its not you.
To be left like that would make any man feel as if they are inadequate. You might be asking yourself, what did I do to her to run away like that? I thought I was good, but I guess not. I should have tried harder. Maybe it was the sex? Or maybe she just didn't find me attractive anymore, or ever did. And so on...

I've been there man. I was with a girl for six years. Average looking girl. She insulted me. Belittled me. And I really thought I was not good enough for any girl. I really thought I was ugly. I tried Tinder anyway and I got more dates than I ever thought I would have. With some really really beautiful woman as well. I was shocked. I was told I am attractive, that I am caring, that I treat them very well and all that good stuff.

It was then I realised the issue was indeed not with me. It was with my partner. A girl who was jelious at times, manipulated me to not have any friends, not to go out, verbally abused me and many other things. But for all those bad things she never ignore me for three weeks or done anything like what was done to you.

Listen man, you might think the problem is with you. But if a girl does what they did to you after six months, trust me... you dodged a bullet.

August 14, 2019, 10:37:39 PM
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SourBash


Sorry to hear man. Imo, there seems to be nothing wrong with you and it just seems like your woman was throwing too much of a hissy fit if she said you were lying without proof.

August 15, 2019, 09:49:44 PM
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Homersimpson


Ill give you another quick example, I had to stop going to church because an old ex gf was going there. I constantly tried and tried to get her to go to church with me. Within the first month of us dating she was talking about getting married. In my mind I was thinking a year from now I could see it happening but not after a couple months.

 

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