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Author Topic: How to judge sincerity?

September 20, 2019, 03:41:59 AM
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Background info : I had social anxiety for a long time and spend most of the time in my room and didn't meet many people before I met my current boyfriend.

Sometimes when my boyfriend says something emotional or deep, I have an annoying feeling, a feeling that its not sincere. Now I am a very reflective person and I criticize my own thoughts. The reason that it comes across as insincere is because He pauses and thinks a lot, I can see him sort of constructing the sentence, and to me it feels like that means he isn't being honest. Maybe I just watched to many movies and expect every emotional sentence to just roll out. Is it possible to speak from the hearth and form the brain at the same time.

What do you think?

 

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