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June 23, 2019, 05:49:31 PM
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buildestroy


Some guy is flirting with my wife pretty heavily at her job. She hasn’t shut him down, but hasn’t really reciprocated. Do I say something anyway? Should I tell him to keep my wife out of his dreams, and if he can’t, he should at least keep it to himself or I may be inclined to let his wife weigh in. I don’t know what to do. I’m angry. Contemplating divorce angry. Am I overreacting?

June 23, 2019, 06:17:46 PM
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rublean


Don't seek out to talk to the guy. You should speak with your wife first. Talk with your wife about the situation. Delicately approach the situation and find out where she stands. If she's understanding then she will see where you are coming from and maybe you guys can come to an agreement. Whether that be her telling the guy to back off, or you trusting her to not pursue anything with him. I'd just talk with her and express your concern. There is no harm in telling her how you feel.

June 26, 2019, 05:14:36 PM
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Mchill


My initial reaction is to confront the man by all means.  And ultimately i would do that regardless of where wifey stands.

However, since it’s a work place thing, who/what is he?  A subordinate? A boss?  A colleague?  It’s important because you want to cause your wife problems with her job. 

If he’s a boss, you may be entitled to some money.  Get a lawyer first.

If it’s a colleague you still might need a lawyer but, there may not be grounds for a law suit so HR may be her best bet.

If he works for her.....”Lucy, you some splaining to do”

But seriously, protect your wife even if stands where she shouldn’t on the matter.

But yeah, I’d confront him for sure....... unless you sit down when you pee.  If you don’t, then get in his face.

June 26, 2019, 10:43:52 PM
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jorge


Yes. Keep a cool head and go over the facts. If things keep going in this direction, then consider taking a rational step. Talk to your wife with a clear head. Open communication is the key.

June 26, 2019, 11:49:33 PM
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Oceanpalmtree


Divorce is silly . Don’t be angry . Talk to your wife . Guys can be creeps and you can’t control him but you can control yourself and communicate with hour wife calmly and tell her how you feel . Be secure when yourself too :) she loves YOU

 

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