Some guy is flirting with my wife pretty heavily at her job. She hasn’t shut him down, but hasn’t really reciprocated. Do I say something anyway? Should I tell him to keep my wife out of his dreams, and if he can’t, he should at least keep it to himself or I may be inclined to let his wife weigh in. I don’t know what to do. I’m angry. Contemplating divorce angry. Am I overreacting?

My initial reaction is to confront the man by all means.  And ultimately i would do that regardless of where wifey stands.

However, since it’s a work place thing, who/what is he?  A subordinate? A boss?  A colleague?  It’s important because you want to cause your wife problems with her job. 

If he’s a boss, you may be entitled to some money.  Get a lawyer first.

If it’s a colleague you still might need a lawyer but, there may not be grounds for a law suit so HR may be her best bet.

If he works for her.....”Lucy, you some splaining to do”

But seriously, protect your wife even if stands where she shouldn’t on the matter.

But yeah, I’d confront him for sure....... unless you sit down when you pee.  If you don’t, then get in his face.

Divorce is silly . Don’t be angry . Talk to your wife . Guys can be creeps and you can’t control him but you can control yourself and communicate with hour wife calmly and tell her how you feel . Be secure when yourself too she loves YOU