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Author Topic: How should I read into this?

February 25, 2020, 03:10:43 AM
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justme2019


Hi. I'm a middle aged man and have been in a relationship for about a year. We love each other but something happened a while ago and I don't know if it's a big deal or not. She was on her phone and I saw a text she was looking at from an ex (a guy she dated a couple of times a  while ago). They are friends (which isn't a problem for me) but every now and then he'll send a NSFW text to her that is a silly, dirty gif or something like that. What I saw was something that said 'found your thermos' and when it opened a sex toy fell out. She responded with a few laughing emojis and that was it. As far as I know there's no deep conversations or anything like that going on. He sends these every now and then - she said. It doesn't really bother me, I guess. What bothers me is that I would never do that to her. If a female friend/ ex send me something like this, I would say knock it off. Should I be concerned that she keeps responding to these? It seems pretty harmless but maybe I'm an idiot.

February 25, 2020, 05:58:00 AM
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BeenHereb4


It's hard to know what's really going on with people today.  Think about this... If he were mailing her porno mags would that be okay?

Depends on how bad she has got you.  I say 🚶away....

April 19, 2020, 10:55:50 PM
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quan9309


Hi justme2019,

I think you should talk to her since you are concern with it. A guy that talk to girl with a text like this, what can you expect from them? You are a guy also, would you send a text like that to a female who you are totally not interest in?

 

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