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March 15, 2020, 02:51:14 AM
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Confused L

I met this girl online last August we were just friends at first but I ended up developing feelings for her and told her I liked her and she told me she liked me too. That was in late October over the next month our texts became more flirty/romantic which made me think we were becoming more than just friends. In early December I found out that she was with someone else who was a mutual friend of ours. I knew he liked her but I didn't know she liked him or that they were together as she never said anything about it to me. When I confronted her about it she apologised and said that leading me on was unintentional. We both left the conversation hurt and didn't talk again until last Monday when she wished me Happy Birthday we talked a little bit but not about what happened. I still have unanswered questions like why did she tell me she liked me if she didn't and why did she flirt with me the way she did when she knew how I felt about her. I want to talk to her about it but don't want to make her upset.

March 15, 2020, 01:26:57 PM
Reply #1


Hi Confused L!

I think the girl didn't actually thought about the fact you might get hurt. It was with the flow, you told her you liked her and she felt like, she could tell you either.

She didn't tell you she was in a relationship, I wonder why too. But that's her ways to deal with her problems but she hurt you on the process.

I don't think you should talk to her about it (that's only my point of view), because she probably don't want to justify herself about the way she reacted. Because she knows what she did was wrong. Buddy, I think you should move on and don't ask yourself too many questions about ''this could have been relationship'' and ''why she hurt me the way she did''.
Live. Just live.

April 24, 2020, 07:37:01 PM
Reply #2

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April 26, 2020, 01:01:37 PM
Reply #3


Hi my name is vivian, am a relationship and dating advisor.

Here's my opinion on thise : Sometimes it's easier to just let this thing go. Just because she's in the relationship doesn't mean she didn't like you, a girl can have feelings for more than one person it happens all the time. That being said am not saying you should go ask her out or try to make her date you, if that happens it has to be completely up to her.
My advice for you in this situation is to just let it go and if she does bring it up, then you can talk about it. She probably enjoyed talking to you and being liked by another man other than her boyfriend. If you are going to be friends with her, you need to delete the idea of dating her or fancying her off you head so you both will be able to move on.

I hope this helps.


September 19, 2020, 04:33:03 AM
Reply #4


I'll tell you this, it's definitely easier to live without a girl :)

September 19, 2020, 01:10:59 PM
Reply #5


Well, perhaps you are right, and in my life, too, there are such situations when I think in this way. But still, having a loved one is also important. Although you can do without it if sex is replaced by watching porn on such a site, for example. For some, this option will be more than enough, but I myself could not do just such a pleasure. It is important for me to get live contact with the little man. Very important.

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