Author Topic: How can you move on from a relationship breakup quickly?

owen87 · August 29, 2018, 09:14:06 AM

My girlfriend broke up with me just five days ago and damn, it was painful and still is. I know it would sound gay and maybe for some, it would sound silly that I cry almost every time because of the pain she left me but yes, I do. She was the one I truly love all these years and she broke up with me saying loving me is not worth it. Am I really not that worthy of love? I begged for her to come back but she does not want to. Right now, I just want to get rid of this pain and move on.

ion · August 29, 2018, 12:15:20 PM

Hey man, chin up. Make your self-busy, be active in everything, like sports, outdoor activities or hangouts with your friends. Don't stay at your home or in your room. Better to just lay on your bed if you're really sleepy. Forget about her, and use that word to motivate your self.

jaymish · August 29, 2018, 01:27:43 PM

My advise would be that you just do. You have to make the decision to move on. This has to be a conscious decision. This is also the hardest thing that you will ever do. Often when a relationship ends its hard for the parties to accept that the relationship has come to an end. You need to do everything that you can to forget. Change your routine, do new things, take up a hobby e.t.c . Use this as a chance to improve and grow yourself after the very important lesson you learned from this relationship.

alymae · August 29, 2018, 01:28:38 PM

There is no such thing as ways to move on quickly. Sad to say, you have to feel the pain. There is no shortcut. All you can do is go through the process. Time heals everything. For now, keep yourself busy. Go out with friends and bond with family. Make use of this time to develop yourself and become a better you. Pursue things that you like or take up a new hobby. Learn and learn. Never stop from living happy.

owen87 · August 30, 2018, 10:27:43 AM

I guess I will just let time heal me and my heart. I don't know how long it will take me but I know I will get there someday. I'll try to distract myself from the pain for the meantime by improving myself. Thank you everyone for you responses.

goodevening · August 30, 2018, 02:42:36 PM

Quote from: owen87 on August 29, 2018, 09:14:06 AM

My girlfriend broke up with me just five days ago and damn, it was painful and still is. I know it would sound gay and maybe for some, it would sound silly that I cry almost every time because of the pain she left me but yes, I do. She was the one I truly love all these years and she broke up with me saying loving me is not worth it. Am I really not that worthy of love? I begged for her to come back but she does not want to. Right now, I just want to get rid of this pain and move on.

We all go through bad breakups at some point in our lives, you may not believe me now, but in time you will.

You will move on from this.

You will meet another person eventually.

You will be happier.

It's just a matter of time, let yourself grieve, it's part of being human, everyone gets their heart broken, but you need to realise that you will move on from this relationship and meet someone else.

Surround yourself with positive people, do things you enjoy, you need to keep yourself occupied and busy.

QueenFarLou · August 30, 2018, 05:10:33 PM

The first step to moving on is DECIDING that you want to move on. Distance yourself from things that would make you remember her. Surround yourself with people and activities that would make you busy. Engage in sports or get a hobby. Time heals, all the best.

Staff · September 05, 2018, 08:23:02 PM

Quote from: owen87 on August 29, 2018, 09:14:06 AM

My girlfriend broke up with me just five days ago and damn, it was painful and still is. I know it would sound gay and maybe for some, it would sound silly that I cry almost every time because of the pain she left me but yes, I do. She was the one I truly love all these years and she broke up with me saying loving me is not worth it. Am I really not that worthy of love? I begged for her to come back but she does not want to. Right now, I just want to get rid of this pain and move on.

Hi Owen,

to give this thread more context, I have updated your topic title to How can you move on from a relationship breakup quickly?

Hope you get things sorted soon, let us know how you get on.

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