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Author Topic: How can I stop her from being a party goer?

July 13, 2018, 09:21:37 AM
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movieguy36


When I went to a foreign socials one time, I got to meet a so damn gorgeous woman who captures my heart right away. We introduced ourselves, exchanged mobile digits and hit it off. We decided to start dating after one week. For two months of dating subsequently, she officially became my girlfriend. This woman used to party real hard and it was fine with me at first. However, as time goes by, she would go clubbing almost every night and I hate it. Every time I tell her to stop going to parties, she gets mad at me. Some of my friends would come and tell me they saw my girlfriend in a bar which turns out finding myself at a particular bar looking for my stubborn girlfriend. I don’t want her to go to parties because there are tons of dumbass in there but she won’t listen to me. How should I tame her? How can I stop her from going to nightclubs?

July 18, 2018, 06:42:12 PM
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When I went to a foreign socials one time, I got to meet a so damn gorgeous woman who captures my heart right away. We introduced ourselves, exchanged mobile digits and hit it off. We decided to start dating after one week. For two months of dating subsequently, she officially became my girlfriend. This woman used to party real hard and it was fine with me at first. However, as time goes by, she would go clubbing almost every night and I hate it. Every time I tell her to stop going to parties, she gets mad at me. Some of my friends would come and tell me they saw my girlfriend in a bar which turns out finding myself at a particular bar looking for my stubborn girlfriend. I don’t want her to go to parties because there are tons of dumbass in there but she won’t listen to me. How should I tame her? How can I stop her from going to nightclubs?

I think you need to work on your insecurities, have you been previously messed around? Has she got a track record of cheating?

Are there any signs or signals in your relationship which may indicate that it's not working out? If there isn't then you most likely have nothing to worry about!

Your friendly neighborhood moderator.=)

July 20, 2018, 02:56:03 PM
Reply #2

ion


Try to find your own night life and make her realize it on her own.  Sometimes the more we prevent the girl to their bad habits, the more they're initiate and disobey us.  We should do the same things and wait for her to complain about our bad habits.

July 20, 2018, 05:08:14 PM
Reply #3

ferlina


Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you should live in each other’s pockets.Having friends and interests apart from each other is normal and healthy, and unlike in past generations where men could leave the house whenever they pleased while the women stayed at home, women today are as likely to have a “girls night” out as guys are to have a “guys night” out.It depends. If you’re okay with it and it’s something the two of you agree to, then sure. However, if you’re saying, “My girlfriend likes to party and I don’t” you’re probably not feeling entirely comfortable with the “arrangement”. However, you don’t want to come across as being the clingy, needy, jealous and insecure boyfriend who tries to control his girlfriend’s every move, right?Here’s the thing: If partying is an essential “must do” thing in your girlfriend’s life that she simply can’t live without, then she has to do it even if you don’t like it. She has to trust her gut instinct and follow her heart. However, that being said, when in a loving relationship, it’s also normal and natural for her to change over time.

July 28, 2018, 02:56:10 PM
Reply #4

daryle12


talk to her explain your feelings, give her an advice make her believe in you and build a healthy bonding and positive communication.

August 02, 2018, 05:28:37 PM
Reply #5

orfia


for me if she love that then no one can stop her, not her parents and probably not you also. all you have to do is to trust her if you love her, I know when a girl is like that to a man it means normal but when a man have that personality it means love, just dont make her feel you're manipulating her, make her understand your concerns or maybe try to guide her sometimes.

August 06, 2018, 03:26:03 PM
Reply #6

QueenFarLou


Well, you guys met at a bar so I think that should give an idea that she loves to party. I don't think it's fair that you stop her from doing what she loves. I understand you are concerned of her safety but don't push it too hard or she might think you are manipulating her.

August 07, 2018, 11:55:15 AM
Reply #7

Steve5


It's best to accept her for how she is. We all have unique quirks and interests. She has a right to enjoy her life while she's young just as much as you. In times like this, you should show how much you trust her. Because in order to be trusted, you must give it yourself. :D

 

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